When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Thats what makes you good, you could read all you want, but until you practice your nothing. Its like any sport... :rockon:Originally posted by DJ de Florida
Put the stuff into action.
its like, driving a car.Originally posted by jiza101
Thats what makes you good, you could read all you want, but until you practice your nothing. Its like any sport... :rockon:
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
glad to see that you are back. Give us some bits of wisdom for us to read. I am interested in some stuff that you learned since you left the site. Glad to see an oldy coming backOriginally posted by DJ de Florida
I haven't posted here for over two years. Just wanted to say hi to all the old Don Juans still around. I still single and having fun.
To the new, young guys: Don't just read and think about this stuff on the website. Put the stuff into action.