Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Thats what makes you good, you could read all you want, but until you practice your nothing. Its like any sport... :rockon:Originally posted by DJ de Florida
Put the stuff into action.
its like, driving a car.Originally posted by jiza101
Thats what makes you good, you could read all you want, but until you practice your nothing. Its like any sport... :rockon:
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
glad to see that you are back. Give us some bits of wisdom for us to read. I am interested in some stuff that you learned since you left the site. Glad to see an oldy coming backOriginally posted by DJ de Florida
I haven't posted here for over two years. Just wanted to say hi to all the old Don Juans still around. I still single and having fun.
To the new, young guys: Don't just read and think about this stuff on the website. Put the stuff into action.