You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Thats what makes you good, you could read all you want, but until you practice your nothing. Its like any sport... :rockon:Originally posted by DJ de Florida
Put the stuff into action.
its like, driving a car.Originally posted by jiza101
Thats what makes you good, you could read all you want, but until you practice your nothing. Its like any sport... :rockon:
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
glad to see that you are back. Give us some bits of wisdom for us to read. I am interested in some stuff that you learned since you left the site. Glad to see an oldy coming backOriginally posted by DJ de Florida
I haven't posted here for over two years. Just wanted to say hi to all the old Don Juans still around. I still single and having fun.
To the new, young guys: Don't just read and think about this stuff on the website. Put the stuff into action.