"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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A Missed Opportunity

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Willie Naylor

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Gents, when a girl is nice to you in a shop, and she's serving you, this is called Customer Service.

Don't be thirsty. Be cool.
I don't know bro. I was at the strip club last weekend, and I think the girl who gave me a lap dance really liked me.
 

joesbigship

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She's high interest but not attractive.
My misunderstanding then. I thought that since you had started a thread and were waxing poetic about it, it must've been a big deal of some kind.

Hate to say it, but "high interest" unattractive women, especially the persistent ones, can become a nuisance and I try not to think about them rather than bring them to the center of my universe.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Stuffnu

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Gents, when a girl is nice to you in a shop, and she's serving you, this is called Customer Service.
I was just going to say the same thing.
It's a missed opportunity bro. Maybe you should go back to the strip club and tell her that you've been thinking about her for 5 months and see if she's ready to settle down
Lol. She’ll settle down at a hourly rate
 

Zimbabwe

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My misunderstanding then. I thought that since you had started a thread and were waxing poetic about it, it must've been a big deal of some kind.

Hate to say it, but "high interest" unattractive women, especially the persistent ones, can become a nuisance and I try not to think about them rather than bring them to the center of my universe.
My game isn't at the level i want it to be, that's the main reason I'm not getting the results I want. I've been using OLD as a crutch for so long to get easy lays.

Doing an entire reboot now
 
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