"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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A Missed Opportunity

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Willie Naylor

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Gents, when a girl is nice to you in a shop, and she's serving you, this is called Customer Service.

Don't be thirsty. Be cool.
I don't know bro. I was at the strip club last weekend, and I think the girl who gave me a lap dance really liked me.
 

joesbigship

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She's high interest but not attractive.
My misunderstanding then. I thought that since you had started a thread and were waxing poetic about it, it must've been a big deal of some kind.

Hate to say it, but "high interest" unattractive women, especially the persistent ones, can become a nuisance and I try not to think about them rather than bring them to the center of my universe.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Stuffnu

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Gents, when a girl is nice to you in a shop, and she's serving you, this is called Customer Service.
I was just going to say the same thing.
It's a missed opportunity bro. Maybe you should go back to the strip club and tell her that you've been thinking about her for 5 months and see if she's ready to settle down
Lol. She’ll settle down at a hourly rate
 

Zimbabwe

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My misunderstanding then. I thought that since you had started a thread and were waxing poetic about it, it must've been a big deal of some kind.

Hate to say it, but "high interest" unattractive women, especially the persistent ones, can become a nuisance and I try not to think about them rather than bring them to the center of my universe.
My game isn't at the level i want it to be, that's the main reason I'm not getting the results I want. I've been using OLD as a crutch for so long to get easy lays.

Doing an entire reboot now
 
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