its only creepy if he is ugly, if he is hot he is sweet
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
A Missed Opportunity
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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True dat.
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She's high interest but not attractive.
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I don't know bro. I was at the strip club last weekend, and I think the girl who gave me a lap dance really liked me.
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My misunderstanding then. I thought that since you had started a thread and were waxing poetic about it, it must've been a big deal of some kind.
Hate to say it, but "high interest" unattractive women, especially the persistent ones, can become a nuisance and I try not to think about them rather than bring them to the center of my universe.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
I was just going to say the same thing.
Lol. She’ll settle down at a hourly rate
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My game isn't at the level i want it to be, that's the main reason I'm not getting the results I want. I've been using OLD as a crutch for so long to get easy lays.
Doing an entire reboot now