its only creepy if he is ugly, if he is hot he is sweet
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
A Missed Opportunity
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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True dat.
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She's high interest but not attractive.
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I don't know bro. I was at the strip club last weekend, and I think the girl who gave me a lap dance really liked me.
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My misunderstanding then. I thought that since you had started a thread and were waxing poetic about it, it must've been a big deal of some kind.
Hate to say it, but "high interest" unattractive women, especially the persistent ones, can become a nuisance and I try not to think about them rather than bring them to the center of my universe.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
I was just going to say the same thing.
Lol. She’ll settle down at a hourly rate
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My game isn't at the level i want it to be, that's the main reason I'm not getting the results I want. I've been using OLD as a crutch for so long to get easy lays.
Doing an entire reboot now