"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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A journey: 100 days. 100 sets.

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okay. once again. my internet has been cut for 5-6 days.


day 12: don't remember but I know I did at least one approach

day 13: went down town, did 3-4 approaches. Went on a date. Was a good date.

Day 14: went to the local store and did an approach

Thanksgiving: had to postpone challenge for family holiday. No possible means of doing an approach.

Tomorrow is day 15.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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day 15.

Went to buy my GRE text book today, and approached a cute asian schnap at the book store. Got her number.

Will most likely be my only approach today as I have a lot on my plate.

Begin studying for my graduate school exam, going to the gym, have to read, meditate, and I want to write a bit tonight.

But I may be going to Vaughn mills with my friend tonight, and if so I will be doing at least 5 approaches.
 

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Hey man,

Props for doing this challenge, it sounds like you've improved a ton and have great self-analysis of where you need to improve.

Question for you- what do you usually do on first dates where you bang the girl?
 
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