"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

Read more...

A journey: 100 days. 100 sets.

N

narcissist

Master Don Juan
Joined
Nov 10, 2013
Messages
1,391
Reaction score
498
Location
New York, NY
okay. once again. my internet has been cut for 5-6 days.


day 12: don't remember but I know I did at least one approach

day 13: went down town, did 3-4 approaches. Went on a date. Was a good date.

Day 14: went to the local store and did an approach

Thanksgiving: had to postpone challenge for family holiday. No possible means of doing an approach.

Tomorrow is day 15.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

Read more...

N

narcissist

Master Don Juan
Joined
Nov 10, 2013
Messages
1,391
Reaction score
498
Location
New York, NY
day 15.

Went to buy my GRE text book today, and approached a cute asian schnap at the book store. Got her number.

Will most likely be my only approach today as I have a lot on my plate.

Begin studying for my graduate school exam, going to the gym, have to read, meditate, and I want to write a bit tonight.

But I may be going to Vaughn mills with my friend tonight, and if so I will be doing at least 5 approaches.
 
F

foolyoufool

Don Juan
Joined
Feb 9, 2012
Messages
140
Reaction score
4
Hey man,

Props for doing this challenge, it sounds like you've improved a ton and have great self-analysis of where you need to improve.

Question for you- what do you usually do on first dates where you bang the girl?
 
You must log in or register to reply here.
22 Rules for Massive Success With Women
Top