"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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A journey: 100 days. 100 sets.

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okay. once again. my internet has been cut for 5-6 days.


day 12: don't remember but I know I did at least one approach

day 13: went down town, did 3-4 approaches. Went on a date. Was a good date.

Day 14: went to the local store and did an approach

Thanksgiving: had to postpone challenge for family holiday. No possible means of doing an approach.

Tomorrow is day 15.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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day 15.

Went to buy my GRE text book today, and approached a cute asian schnap at the book store. Got her number.

Will most likely be my only approach today as I have a lot on my plate.

Begin studying for my graduate school exam, going to the gym, have to read, meditate, and I want to write a bit tonight.

But I may be going to Vaughn mills with my friend tonight, and if so I will be doing at least 5 approaches.
 
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Hey man,

Props for doing this challenge, it sounds like you've improved a ton and have great self-analysis of where you need to improve.

Question for you- what do you usually do on first dates where you bang the girl?
 
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