"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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A Golden Invitation for Queen Bee and Meow...

DoubleBarrel

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And maybe others.

@BeExcellent and @catsmeow2, I am still on this idea today, while mostly sober so far...

Would you be interested in joining an online Mastermind group that sought to help young men and young woman find Love, Sex and Romance, all in one relationship, which laid the foundation for a strong family, where their sons were guided to Masculinity, and their daughters were taught to be ladies, not *****s?

I have a dream of making this happen. But if you're not in yet, I will keep meditating on it, developing it, and arriving at a purpose you guys want to be a part of.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I'm a schizophrenic drunk, so my opinion is irrelevant, right?

I just wonder if it's not possible to prevent ladies from becoming slvtty and men from bouncing around. The 50s prided commitment. Is there no one out there who wants to see this being prominent again?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Why dont you join my group. I can get women in easily. Or bring me into yours. I already have the answers your looking for. I can sell it to women, the most difficult thing is finding or developing men who can bring the required value.
 

DoubleBarrel

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Why dont you join my group. I can get women in easily. Or bring me into yours. I already have the answers your looking for. I can sell it to women, the most difficult thing is finding or developing men who can bring the required value.
Eh, pass.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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