"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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A Golden Invitation for Queen Bee and Meow...

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And maybe others.

@BeExcellent and @catsmeow2, I am still on this idea today, while mostly sober so far...

Would you be interested in joining an online Mastermind group that sought to help young men and young woman find Love, Sex and Romance, all in one relationship, which laid the foundation for a strong family, where their sons were guided to Masculinity, and their daughters were taught to be ladies, not *****s?

I have a dream of making this happen. But if you're not in yet, I will keep meditating on it, developing it, and arriving at a purpose you guys want to be a part of.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I'm a schizophrenic drunk, so my opinion is irrelevant, right?

I just wonder if it's not possible to prevent ladies from becoming slvtty and men from bouncing around. The 50s prided commitment. Is there no one out there who wants to see this being prominent again?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Why dont you join my group. I can get women in easily. Or bring me into yours. I already have the answers your looking for. I can sell it to women, the most difficult thing is finding or developing men who can bring the required value.
 

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Why dont you join my group. I can get women in easily. Or bring me into yours. I already have the answers your looking for. I can sell it to women, the most difficult thing is finding or developing men who can bring the required value.
Eh, pass.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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