"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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A Golden Invitation for Queen Bee and Meow...

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And maybe others.

@BeExcellent and @catsmeow2, I am still on this idea today, while mostly sober so far...

Would you be interested in joining an online Mastermind group that sought to help young men and young woman find Love, Sex and Romance, all in one relationship, which laid the foundation for a strong family, where their sons were guided to Masculinity, and their daughters were taught to be ladies, not *****s?

I have a dream of making this happen. But if you're not in yet, I will keep meditating on it, developing it, and arriving at a purpose you guys want to be a part of.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I'm a schizophrenic drunk, so my opinion is irrelevant, right?

I just wonder if it's not possible to prevent ladies from becoming slvtty and men from bouncing around. The 50s prided commitment. Is there no one out there who wants to see this being prominent again?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Why dont you join my group. I can get women in easily. Or bring me into yours. I already have the answers your looking for. I can sell it to women, the most difficult thing is finding or developing men who can bring the required value.
 

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Why dont you join my group. I can get women in easily. Or bring me into yours. I already have the answers your looking for. I can sell it to women, the most difficult thing is finding or developing men who can bring the required value.
Eh, pass.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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