"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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A Golden Invitation for Queen Bee and Meow...

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And maybe others.

@BeExcellent and @catsmeow2, I am still on this idea today, while mostly sober so far...

Would you be interested in joining an online Mastermind group that sought to help young men and young woman find Love, Sex and Romance, all in one relationship, which laid the foundation for a strong family, where their sons were guided to Masculinity, and their daughters were taught to be ladies, not *****s?

I have a dream of making this happen. But if you're not in yet, I will keep meditating on it, developing it, and arriving at a purpose you guys want to be a part of.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I'm a schizophrenic drunk, so my opinion is irrelevant, right?

I just wonder if it's not possible to prevent ladies from becoming slvtty and men from bouncing around. The 50s prided commitment. Is there no one out there who wants to see this being prominent again?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Why dont you join my group. I can get women in easily. Or bring me into yours. I already have the answers your looking for. I can sell it to women, the most difficult thing is finding or developing men who can bring the required value.
 

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Why dont you join my group. I can get women in easily. Or bring me into yours. I already have the answers your looking for. I can sell it to women, the most difficult thing is finding or developing men who can bring the required value.
Eh, pass.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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