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A girl who doesn't reject or say yes.

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So basically you're left to wonder yes or no.

What do you supposed it means? What will be your actions?
 

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Attention *****. Stringing along
Case closed
 

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Raymond said:
So basically you're left to wonder yes or no.
No you're not. You're only left to wonder if you're a chump or completely new to dating.

To me,the ABSENCE of a "yes" equals a "no".

When I walk into a room at night,I don't have to scratch my head wondering if the light switch is on or not,it's pretty apparent.

You asked a girl out,she DIDN'T say yes. THAT'S your answer.



What do you supposed it means?

It means NO.



What will be your actions?
There's no further action necessary........on to the next chick.
 

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^^^^Little to add to that. Women are maximally indirect when it comes to turning someone down as they don't want the situation to become awkward or they don't want to hurt you.
 

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A girl who doesn't reject or say yes.
She is using you for validation. Each time she thinks you are about to walk away she will flirt a little to get you hooked again. The cycle continues until she gets bored of you or you figure out what is going on.
 

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Raymond said:
So basically you're left to wonder yes or no.

What do you supposed it means? What will be your actions?
Anything other than an enthusiastic "yes" is a rejection.
 

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Ambiguous answers are definitely a no. Trust me, if a girl wants to meet you, she'll claw and scratch her way through ANYTHING.
 

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AFAIC if it's not an enthusiastic yes with actions to back it up, it's a rejection. It really is that simple.

I give a woman ONE strike. If I get a variant of maybe, I walk away and don't look back. Why the f**k do men keep chasing disinterest?

In shorter form:

Yes with actions to back it up=yes
Anything else=no

Case closed...again.
 

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Redwood said:
Ambiguous answers are definitely a no. Trust me, if a girl wants to meet you, she'll claw and scratch her way through ANYTHING.
I would really argue that. Most girls can play the game and pretend they are not interested. ESPECIALLY at the beginning.

You have to have the mentality of a closer, meaning, assume she's down and go for it.
Just like in sales, if they haven't hung up the phone or haven't left the store it means they are still on the fence and its your job to pull them in until they leave.

They are looking for excuses not to, so you want to give them reasons to say yes.
 

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It is all great advice, and it is all truth! Bokanovsky, nismo, Redwood, PairPlus, Igetit!... Even hudpes and No.Danny. All correct!

But the real truth is how does this affect you??

If it was from a girl you've never met, it wouldn't matter at all I suppose.

So all of this, is because this particular girl's opinion, matter to you, which shouldn't.

You should get to a point that this means nothing to you. Paradoxically, and ironically, when you get to that point (of not giving a sh*t) is when you'll get less of this behaviour!

EDIT: Really great stuff on your signature Igetit!
 

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Lotus Effect said:
It is all great advice, and it is all truth! Bokanovsky, nismo, Redwood, PairPlus, Igetit!... Even hudpes and No.Danny. All correct!

But the real truth is how does this affect you??

If it was from a girl you've never met, it wouldn't matter at all I suppose.

So all of this, is because this particular girl's opinion, matter to you, which shouldn't.

You should get to a point that this means nothing to you. Paradoxically, and ironically, when you get to that point (of not giving a sh*t) is when you'll get less of this behaviour!

EDIT: Really great stuff on your signature Igetit!

Of course it affects you. It affects the direction you'll be going, based on her answer, plain and simple. If she says yes, it's game on, if she says anything else, it's a Next. It shouldn't affect you too much emotionally, though. Yeah, it sucks big hairy ballsacs, but you have no choice but to move on. When you continue to chase like a puppy without a clue, then you're FUBARed and your problems start.
 

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Yeah, I agree with you Vlad.

The same way as I agree with everyone else on the matter!
Anything but a yes is a no.

I just added another point on the subject, instead of keep on saying the obvious, which by the tenth reply, he must have understood!

I just wanted to bring the "it shouldn't affect you emotionally" point to the table!

Chill out! We are on the same page mate. :up:
 

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Just advice. I met a girl who seemed interested, but one day she suddenly ignored my text. I next'd her immediately and didn't even bother to ask her why. She was in my class and it was awkward when I saw her everyday, but I pretended like nothing happened.
 

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It's a no in womenese.
 

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Anything but YES is a NO. I used to just next but now I ping a few times for lulz and the chance to hear new excuses then ignore after
 
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