A girl says I love you during sex... how do you handle this?

[T-Mack]

I obviously do not love the girl. I'm pretty bad at faking it. Would a lot of you just tell the girl that you love them? I really hate saying those words.

 

[KontrollerX]

Use the Han Solo response...

"I know."

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sO-KR-14uXM

In doing so you acknowledge what the girl said without leading her on that you love her as well.

Said with a genuine smile on your part you can disarm the chick from flipping out on you if you don't say the love stuff back because she will feel like an assh0le to press you to say it after you made such a genuine sounding reply and gesture towards her in response. :yes:

 

[BlackJackal]

Ignore it and hopefully it will go away. Seriously dont fake it man. If you dont lover then you dont love her.

 

[Commandante]

If you don´t love her why do you care about faking it? There are more serious thing in live you have to fake. Like telling your boss: "Yes, exactly! It´s a perfect idea. Let´s do it!" with the biggest smile on your face.

Take your situation as a good practice!

 

[horaholic]

Ignore it. Chicks say that during sex sometimes as an automatic response. I've had first timers say that. It doesnt mean anything.

 

[bukowski_merit]

no joke. i'd say "i love how my d!ck feels when it's sliding in and out of it... do you love the way that d!ck feels? tell me you love the way that d!ck feels!"

and hope that the dirty talk distracted her...

how long have you been boning this girl? if it's been a while - she's probably just looking to get a different emotion out of sex... something more emotional from you... some sensative talk (even if you're ripping her to pieces). if you give her that or not - is your choice (im talking about emotional talk, not "i love you too").... giving it to her will probably make her feel even more attraction to you... not giving it to her can make her feel not special and isolated... and you will probably begin to see her push away from you, by stepping up the sh!t testing....

 

[Accension]

If you don´t love her why do you care about faking it? There are more serious thing in live you have to fake. Like telling your boss: "Yes, exactly! It´s a perfect idea. Let´s do it!" with the biggest smile on your face.

Take your situation as a good practice!

I promise you that your boss would have a world of respect for you if you put forward a genuine opinion in a non-confronting tone.

This is the key to being promoted.
The same concept I believe applies to women you just have to put forward your own opinion in a reasonable way and get resulting respect from it.

I feel no need to go into detail on why this works and how because the community's full of guys of titanic intelligence capable of reaching their own conclusions.

 

[PSYCHO]

Hors "love" every body and no one, at the same time!

 

[Mr. Obvious]

just say it back, those words mean nothing 99.99% of the time in the dating game anyway

saying i love you is a sure fire way to get her hornier in the heat of the moment

you need to stop thinking like an AFC and start thinking like a player who will tell women what they need to hear in order to get from them what you want

you have to evolve in the game, stop asking silly questions, and stop being such a nice proper guy

 

[Vlad the 1mpaler]

just say it back, those words mean nothing 99.99% of the time in the dating game anyway

saying i love you is a sure fire way to get her hornier in the heat of the moment

you need to stop thinking like an AFC and start thinking like a player who will tell women what they need to hear in order to get from them what you want

you have to evolve in the game, stop asking silly questions, and stop being such a nice proper guy

So you lie and tell a girl you love them, then she gets all excited and wants to get serious and starts talking about marriage and then you have to let her know you lied.

I dont think it's a good idea to be telling chics you love them just because they say it. The relationship will end when she finds out you lied. Maybe you did this when you were a kid but these days chics start thinking marriage after the i love you crap assuming you are dating chics 25 and up.

 

[Mr. Obvious]

So you lie and tell a girl you love them, then she gets all excited and wants to get serious and starts talking about marriage and then you have to let her know you lied.

I dont think it's a good idea to be telling chics you love them just because they say it. The relationship will end when she finds out you lied. Maybe you did this when you were a kid but these days chics start thinking marriage after the i love you crap assuming you are dating chics 25 and up.

nope you never let them know you lied

what ends up happening is that everything fizzles out and she will magically end up losing feelings for you (which is good for you, because no one ends up getting hurt)

none of them who say they love you will end up loving you for LIFE

hello, think logically what are the odds of that???

 

[Vlad the Impaler]

nope you never let them know you lied

what ends up happening is that everything fizzles out and she will magically end up losing feelings for you (which is good for you, because no one ends up getting hurt)

none of them who say they love you will end up loving you for LIFE

hello, think logically what are the odds of that???

Didnt you say all the girls you did this to were 18 - 20 years old?

Dude, I am dating grown women not kids. Grown women dont take that I love you crap lightly.

 

[Mr. Obvious]

Didnt you say all the girls you did this to were 18 - 20 years old?

Dude, I am dating grown women not kids. Grown women dont take that I love you crap lightly.

there is no reason to NOT date 18-20 year olds - they are perfect for getting everything you want as a man from a woman

stop dating BPD single moms who are trying to get knocked up - you'll breathe easier you fool

 

[Vlad the Impaler]

there is no reason to NOT date 18-20 year olds - they are perfect for getting everything you want as a man from a woman

stop dating BPD single moms who are trying to get knocked up - you'll breathe easier you fool

At least she was honest about it. She wants to get married and have another kid no big deal all woman do. She told me she is on the pill so I was hitting it raw for 2 months. If she was being sneaky trying to get knocked up I lucked the hell out. For some reason I trusted her I guess she was telling the truth... who the hell knows. I don't think she wants to be a single mom with another bastard.

 

[Mr. Obvious]

At least she was honest about it. She wants to get married and have another kid no big deal all woman do. She told me she is on the pill so I was hitting it raw for 2 months. If she was being sneaky trying to get knocked up I lucked the hell out. For some reason I trusted her I guess she was telling the truth... who the hell knows. I don't think she wants to be a single mom with another bastard.

you are beating around the bush - admit to your mistake and announce to everyone that you are not going to repeat it