iqqi
Master Don Juan
I'm God. Send your pic to me, I'll tell you whats up.Alkali said:I'm only a 9.2 on hot or not
Those scales are screwy too lol.
BTW, I don't use a stupid number scale. What a dumb concept!
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
I'm God. Send your pic to me, I'll tell you whats up.Alkali said:I'm only a 9.2 on hot or not
Those scales are screwy too lol.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
ROFL THIS IS SO TRUE!iqqi said:Most of you who post your pics are NOT hot. You yourself are always talking about how funny you look. And you posted your pic.
Maybe, how much will you give me for oneCrazy Asian said:and grand almar, did she send u the pics?
i like ur logic, so if one person is ugly and doesn't post a pic, then ALL ugly people can't POSSIBLY post a pic!iqqi said:Your previous statement would allude to the fact that only ugly people refuse to post their pics. Yet you consider yourself ugly, and YOU posted a pic.
I agree, this is a very good question. Who do you think you are that you choose to come here to offer advice?Sun Tzu said:Yeah, I have a question for you:
Why, specifically, do you think you're here? I mean, what is the gratification that you derive from coming on this forum and offering "advice".
This is a serious question. I want to see how you view yourself and your motivations.
Sun Tzu
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
I'm not Ms. Bee, but since you seem to mean why is a woman coming here, I can tell you why I am here (still). I personally come here for sh!ts and giggles.Sun Tzu said:Why, specifically, do you think you're here? I mean, what is the gratification that you derive from coming on this forum and offering "advice".
This is a serious question. I want to see how you view yourself and your motivations.
There is no wisdom in looking for reasons to judge another.Grand Wizzard Alamar said:I agree, this is a very good question. Who do you think you are that you choose to come here to offer advice?
Your answer will definitely say something about yourself.
I like your question Sun. You word it unlike anyone else here. Dunno if thats through age but there's more wisdom in it than what anybody's said here, including me lol.
Dayummm you hit the nail on the head there!iqqi said:When people like those posters are regularly posting here, this would have to be the most intelligent, humorous, and insightful forum I've ever come across. Great characters. Good conversation.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Well it's more of how she judges herself. How she justifies her position in a male-oriented forum.iqqi said:There is no wisdom in looking for reasons to judge another.
Well, I think AnnaBee has retired for the evening. however never fear, the iq is here!krazyboy99 said:you guys are fvckin jacka55es. i bet the guys dissing her don't even have game and probably haven't been laid.
anyways i have two questions for you anna bee
1) what type of approach has been the most successful on you? like how would a guy who approaches you successfully do it, directly or indirectly, and saying what to start the conversation?
2) could a man who is not good looking to you in terms of physical appearance, through personality, get you to want to sleep with him?
HA!SunnyD said:Do women have to post their pic to get respect around here??
Haha so I've noticed. Long-time lurker.iqqi said:HA!
Respect + women = doesn't equate here.
Not for nada, homie! Its them vs us mentality here for most (AFC's).
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
It is more than possible. It is common!krazyboy99 said:just read your field report.
so it is possible for a man to make you feel sexually attracted without looks then? that pretty much settles the whole looks debate
it really depends on the girl.....and about how picky she is with looks.krazyboy99 said:just read your field report.
so it is possible for a man to make you feel sexually attracted without looks then? that pretty much settles the whole looks debate
You youngins! So cute.Crazy Asian said:it really depends on the girl.....and about how picky she is with looks.
some girls might not even talk to you JUST because of ur looks, but some girls might try to look past it.
The answer is in a question --- Does she deserve to be respected???iqqi said:HA!
Respect + women = doesn't equate here.
Not for nada, homie! Its them vs us mentality here for most (AFC's).
Well, Duh, my darling LMS.Last Man Standing said:The answer is in a question --- Does she deserve to be respected???
You can't demand respect solely for the mere fact that you are a woman - not today anyways!!
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.