iqqi
Master Don Juan
I'm God. Send your pic to me, I'll tell you whats up.Alkali said:I'm only a 9.2 on hot or not
Those scales are screwy too lol.
BTW, I don't use a stupid number scale. What a dumb concept!
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
I'm God. Send your pic to me, I'll tell you whats up.Alkali said:I'm only a 9.2 on hot or not
Those scales are screwy too lol.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
ROFL THIS IS SO TRUE!iqqi said:Most of you who post your pics are NOT hot. You yourself are always talking about how funny you look. And you posted your pic.
Maybe, how much will you give me for oneCrazy Asian said:and grand almar, did she send u the pics?
i like ur logic, so if one person is ugly and doesn't post a pic, then ALL ugly people can't POSSIBLY post a pic!iqqi said:Your previous statement would allude to the fact that only ugly people refuse to post their pics. Yet you consider yourself ugly, and YOU posted a pic.
I agree, this is a very good question. Who do you think you are that you choose to come here to offer advice?Sun Tzu said:Yeah, I have a question for you:
Why, specifically, do you think you're here? I mean, what is the gratification that you derive from coming on this forum and offering "advice".
This is a serious question. I want to see how you view yourself and your motivations.
Sun Tzu
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
I'm not Ms. Bee, but since you seem to mean why is a woman coming here, I can tell you why I am here (still). I personally come here for sh!ts and giggles.Sun Tzu said:Why, specifically, do you think you're here? I mean, what is the gratification that you derive from coming on this forum and offering "advice".
This is a serious question. I want to see how you view yourself and your motivations.
There is no wisdom in looking for reasons to judge another.Grand Wizzard Alamar said:I agree, this is a very good question. Who do you think you are that you choose to come here to offer advice?
Your answer will definitely say something about yourself.
I like your question Sun. You word it unlike anyone else here. Dunno if thats through age but there's more wisdom in it than what anybody's said here, including me lol.
Dayummm you hit the nail on the head there!iqqi said:When people like those posters are regularly posting here, this would have to be the most intelligent, humorous, and insightful forum I've ever come across. Great characters. Good conversation.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Well it's more of how she judges herself. How she justifies her position in a male-oriented forum.iqqi said:There is no wisdom in looking for reasons to judge another.
Well, I think AnnaBee has retired for the evening. however never fear, the iq is here!krazyboy99 said:you guys are fvckin jacka55es. i bet the guys dissing her don't even have game and probably haven't been laid.
anyways i have two questions for you anna bee
1) what type of approach has been the most successful on you? like how would a guy who approaches you successfully do it, directly or indirectly, and saying what to start the conversation?
2) could a man who is not good looking to you in terms of physical appearance, through personality, get you to want to sleep with him?
HA!SunnyD said:Do women have to post their pic to get respect around here??
Haha so I've noticed. Long-time lurker.iqqi said:HA!
Respect + women = doesn't equate here.
Not for nada, homie! Its them vs us mentality here for most (AFC's).
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
It is more than possible. It is common!krazyboy99 said:just read your field report.
so it is possible for a man to make you feel sexually attracted without looks then? that pretty much settles the whole looks debate
it really depends on the girl.....and about how picky she is with looks.krazyboy99 said:just read your field report.
so it is possible for a man to make you feel sexually attracted without looks then? that pretty much settles the whole looks debate
You youngins! So cute.Crazy Asian said:it really depends on the girl.....and about how picky she is with looks.
some girls might not even talk to you JUST because of ur looks, but some girls might try to look past it.
The answer is in a question --- Does she deserve to be respected???iqqi said:HA!
Respect + women = doesn't equate here.
Not for nada, homie! Its them vs us mentality here for most (AFC's).
Well, Duh, my darling LMS.Last Man Standing said:The answer is in a question --- Does she deserve to be respected???
You can't demand respect solely for the mere fact that you are a woman - not today anyways!!
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.