iqqi
Master Don Juan
I'm God. Send your pic to me, I'll tell you whats up.Alkali said:I'm only a 9.2 on hot or not
Those scales are screwy too lol.
BTW, I don't use a stupid number scale. What a dumb concept!
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
I'm God. Send your pic to me, I'll tell you whats up.Alkali said:I'm only a 9.2 on hot or not
Those scales are screwy too lol.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
ROFL THIS IS SO TRUE!iqqi said:Most of you who post your pics are NOT hot. You yourself are always talking about how funny you look. And you posted your pic.
Maybe, how much will you give me for oneCrazy Asian said:and grand almar, did she send u the pics?
i like ur logic, so if one person is ugly and doesn't post a pic, then ALL ugly people can't POSSIBLY post a pic!iqqi said:Your previous statement would allude to the fact that only ugly people refuse to post their pics. Yet you consider yourself ugly, and YOU posted a pic.
I agree, this is a very good question. Who do you think you are that you choose to come here to offer advice?Sun Tzu said:Yeah, I have a question for you:
Why, specifically, do you think you're here? I mean, what is the gratification that you derive from coming on this forum and offering "advice".
This is a serious question. I want to see how you view yourself and your motivations.
Sun Tzu
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
I'm not Ms. Bee, but since you seem to mean why is a woman coming here, I can tell you why I am here (still). I personally come here for sh!ts and giggles.Sun Tzu said:Why, specifically, do you think you're here? I mean, what is the gratification that you derive from coming on this forum and offering "advice".
This is a serious question. I want to see how you view yourself and your motivations.
There is no wisdom in looking for reasons to judge another.Grand Wizzard Alamar said:I agree, this is a very good question. Who do you think you are that you choose to come here to offer advice?
Your answer will definitely say something about yourself.
I like your question Sun. You word it unlike anyone else here. Dunno if thats through age but there's more wisdom in it than what anybody's said here, including me lol.
Dayummm you hit the nail on the head there!iqqi said:When people like those posters are regularly posting here, this would have to be the most intelligent, humorous, and insightful forum I've ever come across. Great characters. Good conversation.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Well it's more of how she judges herself. How she justifies her position in a male-oriented forum.iqqi said:There is no wisdom in looking for reasons to judge another.
Well, I think AnnaBee has retired for the evening. however never fear, the iq is here!krazyboy99 said:you guys are fvckin jacka55es. i bet the guys dissing her don't even have game and probably haven't been laid.
anyways i have two questions for you anna bee
1) what type of approach has been the most successful on you? like how would a guy who approaches you successfully do it, directly or indirectly, and saying what to start the conversation?
2) could a man who is not good looking to you in terms of physical appearance, through personality, get you to want to sleep with him?
HA!SunnyD said:Do women have to post their pic to get respect around here??
Haha so I've noticed. Long-time lurker.iqqi said:HA!
Respect + women = doesn't equate here.
Not for nada, homie! Its them vs us mentality here for most (AFC's).
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
It is more than possible. It is common!krazyboy99 said:just read your field report.
so it is possible for a man to make you feel sexually attracted without looks then? that pretty much settles the whole looks debate
it really depends on the girl.....and about how picky she is with looks.krazyboy99 said:just read your field report.
so it is possible for a man to make you feel sexually attracted without looks then? that pretty much settles the whole looks debate
You youngins! So cute.Crazy Asian said:it really depends on the girl.....and about how picky she is with looks.
some girls might not even talk to you JUST because of ur looks, but some girls might try to look past it.
The answer is in a question --- Does she deserve to be respected???iqqi said:HA!
Respect + women = doesn't equate here.
Not for nada, homie! Its them vs us mentality here for most (AFC's).
Well, Duh, my darling LMS.Last Man Standing said:The answer is in a question --- Does she deserve to be respected???
You can't demand respect solely for the mere fact that you are a woman - not today anyways!!
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.