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I'm God. Send your pic to me, I'll tell you whats up.Alkali said:I'm only a 9.2 on hot or not
Those scales are screwy too lol.
BTW, I don't use a stupid number scale. What a dumb concept!
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
I'm God. Send your pic to me, I'll tell you whats up.Alkali said:I'm only a 9.2 on hot or not
Those scales are screwy too lol.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
ROFL THIS IS SO TRUE!iqqi said:Most of you who post your pics are NOT hot. You yourself are always talking about how funny you look. And you posted your pic.
Maybe, how much will you give me for oneCrazy Asian said:and grand almar, did she send u the pics?
i like ur logic, so if one person is ugly and doesn't post a pic, then ALL ugly people can't POSSIBLY post a pic!iqqi said:Your previous statement would allude to the fact that only ugly people refuse to post their pics. Yet you consider yourself ugly, and YOU posted a pic.
I agree, this is a very good question. Who do you think you are that you choose to come here to offer advice?Sun Tzu said:Yeah, I have a question for you:
Why, specifically, do you think you're here? I mean, what is the gratification that you derive from coming on this forum and offering "advice".
This is a serious question. I want to see how you view yourself and your motivations.
Sun Tzu
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
I'm not Ms. Bee, but since you seem to mean why is a woman coming here, I can tell you why I am here (still). I personally come here for sh!ts and giggles.Sun Tzu said:Why, specifically, do you think you're here? I mean, what is the gratification that you derive from coming on this forum and offering "advice".
This is a serious question. I want to see how you view yourself and your motivations.
There is no wisdom in looking for reasons to judge another.Grand Wizzard Alamar said:I agree, this is a very good question. Who do you think you are that you choose to come here to offer advice?
Your answer will definitely say something about yourself.
I like your question Sun. You word it unlike anyone else here. Dunno if thats through age but there's more wisdom in it than what anybody's said here, including me lol.
Dayummm you hit the nail on the head there!iqqi said:When people like those posters are regularly posting here, this would have to be the most intelligent, humorous, and insightful forum I've ever come across. Great characters. Good conversation.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Well it's more of how she judges herself. How she justifies her position in a male-oriented forum.iqqi said:There is no wisdom in looking for reasons to judge another.
Well, I think AnnaBee has retired for the evening. however never fear, the iq is here!krazyboy99 said:you guys are fvckin jacka55es. i bet the guys dissing her don't even have game and probably haven't been laid.
anyways i have two questions for you anna bee
1) what type of approach has been the most successful on you? like how would a guy who approaches you successfully do it, directly or indirectly, and saying what to start the conversation?
2) could a man who is not good looking to you in terms of physical appearance, through personality, get you to want to sleep with him?
HA!SunnyD said:Do women have to post their pic to get respect around here??
Haha so I've noticed. Long-time lurker.iqqi said:HA!
Respect + women = doesn't equate here.
Not for nada, homie! Its them vs us mentality here for most (AFC's).
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
It is more than possible. It is common!krazyboy99 said:just read your field report.
so it is possible for a man to make you feel sexually attracted without looks then? that pretty much settles the whole looks debate
it really depends on the girl.....and about how picky she is with looks.krazyboy99 said:just read your field report.
so it is possible for a man to make you feel sexually attracted without looks then? that pretty much settles the whole looks debate
You youngins! So cute.Crazy Asian said:it really depends on the girl.....and about how picky she is with looks.
some girls might not even talk to you JUST because of ur looks, but some girls might try to look past it.
The answer is in a question --- Does she deserve to be respected???iqqi said:HA!
Respect + women = doesn't equate here.
Not for nada, homie! Its them vs us mentality here for most (AFC's).
Well, Duh, my darling LMS.Last Man Standing said:The answer is in a question --- Does she deserve to be respected???
You can't demand respect solely for the mere fact that you are a woman - not today anyways!!
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.