A girl has used meme she sent me as her DP

[Depressedguy]

So I've been talking to this girl who has gone cold. We were doing great, joking around flirting and having fun. She even asked for a picture and the conversation progressed after that. She sent a meme on which we had a good laugh and exchanged a story and she has now put it as her DP. I think my last message was a mean joke on what she wrote in her profile and I think that's why she went cold. Or is there any other reason? What do you suggest? I really like this girl.

 

[HyenaPrince]

Insufficient information. How long have you been talking to her? How did you meet her? In which social environment were you guys seeing each other?

Forget the meme thing for now. This could be random bullsh*t. Doesn't have to mean anything.

 

[Depressedguy]

We have been talking for about a month. I met her on a dating app. I've not met her in person as everything is closed around where I live. She asked for my picture even though I had in my profile.
She had written in her profile that you should not ask for her number unless she gave herself and then she sends me a ss of a guy asking for her number and she found it funny and I didn't react much to it and made a joke about it and changed the topic. Where did I go wrong?
It's been 4 days and I haven't texted neither she did. Should I say something or should I just forget about her?

 

[HyenaPrince]

We have been talking for about a month. I met her on a dating app. I've not met her in person as everything is closed around where I live. She asked for my picture even though I had in my profile.
She had written in her profile that you should not ask for her number unless she gave herself and then she sends me a ss of a guy asking for her number and she found it funny and I didn't react much to it and made a joke about it and changed the topic. Where did I go wrong?
It's been 4 days and I haven't texted neither she did. Should I say something or should I just forget about her?

For a month? And you haven't asked her to meet you yet?

If she sends you a screenshot of another guy's conversation, you bet she'll do it with your conversation too. You didn't do anything wrong because nothing happened yet. You should've said something the same day you got her number.

The only thing you can do now is to ask her to meet you. Grab a picnic blanket and some snacks or just go for a walk and then go from there. If she says no or tries to postpone you know she's just in for the entertainment.

 

[Glassguy]

A month?

Lose your scarcity mindset and go find other women and stop the neediness before it costs you again.

 

[Zontyy]

I have to agree with everyone else here. a MONTH come on man. Just ask them out after a few text exchanges or a phone call. This seems like quite a bit of time to waste. Ask to meet up and go do something anything.

 

[sosumba]

What is DP? Dating profile?

 

[Tilex]

DP?
Double Penetration?

 

[Mike32ct]

Was thinking the same thing.

Deep penetration or Dik pic*?

*Hopefully not that lol.

 

[logicallefty]

Was thinking the same thing.

Deep penetration or Dik pic*?

*Hopefully not that lol.

Glad I’m not the only one wondering what DP means.

Op yeah as others said a month is a long time to talk with no date. I’d say a few days at most, then ask her out. If you get anything but a solid yes or counter offer then don’t waste your time and energy on her anymore. If she wants to be chatty Kathy she can talk to her girlfriends.

 

[backseatjuan]

She didn't send her a meme where she sucks you off and gets anal did she? She send you a meme where two of you are friends and then she set it as her daily pic in her profile feed. You have talked yourself into friends. Basically what that means is that she don't find you sexually attractive.

 

[Depressedguy]

Th

DP?
Double Penetration?

This is not funny. I hope you feel funny when someone talks about the girl you like the same way. Thanks

 

[Depressedguy]

Glad I’m not the only one wondering what DP means.

Op yeah as others said a month is a long time to talk with no date. I’d say a few days at most, then ask her out. If you get anything but a solid yes or counter offer then don’t waste your time and energy on her anymore. If she wants to be chatty Kathy she can talk to her girlfriends.

DP means Display Picture man.
And thanks for the advice. But I've been friendzoned now. She already has a boyfriend and looks like I was just getting played or it was just a plain rejection.

 

[derby1]

This is not funny. I hope you feel funny when someone talks about the girl you like the same way. Thanks

way to invested in a woman you barely know, imagine if she let you nut in her, you would turn into Ted Bundy

 

[oldmanofthesea]

This is not funny. I hope you feel funny when someone talks about the girl you like the same way. Thanks

Brother, there is literally no reason to get butt-hurt over something someone says about a girl you haven't even met. If you are investing that much emotion into a girl you haven't met that a stranger on the internet says something that causes you to feel bad, then that level of investment will prevent you from getting with any girl.

 

[Tilex]

Th
This is not funny. I hope you feel funny when someone talks about the girl you like the same way. Thanks

I'm not making fun of you bro. I'm just defining your abbreviation.
If you looked up DP on Google, you'll get 2 top definitions. Dynamic Programming & Double Penetration. And I know we're not talking about Computer Language here.

You wanna know the real reason why DP is a sexual abbreviation?
It's because people like to browse porn at work, and DP is a common keyword to bypass the security filters.
I bet you didn't know that huh?

 

[Depressedguy]

Thanks for the tips.
I feel awful. I got friendzoned. And sorry I got so sentimental. Like you said, way too invested and I literally became her bro. Wow.

 

[derby1]

I feel awful. I got friendzoned. And sorry I got so sentimental. Like you said, way too invested and I literally became her bro. Wow.

women do this with ease, they can smell it like sharks smell blood, they rinse men of non secsual attention.

Her knowing you fancy her , gives her the same dopamine hit, that you get when you first enter the golden gates

weird ay? but it is what it is

 

[Depressedguy]

Shou

women do this with ease, they can smell it like sharks smell blood, they rinse men of non secsual attention.

Her knowing you fancy her , gives her the same dopamine hit, that you get when you first enter the golden gates

weird ay? but it is what it is

Should I just walk away or keep the friendship? She wants to be 'friends' but then I don't feel like texting her anymore. I don't want to water dead plants.

 

[oldmanofthesea]

Friendship? What do you define as friendship? Is it being pen-pals with someone you’ve never met in-person? Is it someone you see all the time and can rely on for help and mutual support?

When she says she wants to be “friends”, what do you think that means? What would you get out of it? A real friendship?

If you agreed to be her pen-pal, aka “friend”, to keep her entertained while she was bored, would you be doing it only in hopes that it would lead to romance? If so, she has already told you she isn’t interested in romance with you.