"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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A few questions on high school girls

Bawb14

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Yeah well, this one time, this guy was like, GIVE ME YOUR PENCIL, and I was like all... No waaay maaan this is my pencil, and he called me a butthead and i called him a doodooface. Haha sorry sorry, I joke. I just had to throw that in there.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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lol a butterhead and a doodooface? Hahahaha

by the way has anyone answered the 3rd question in my first post yet?
 

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The Do you like surprises line is actually quite decent. I have to admit I read your post and tried it out earlier today, worked for me haha! But you gotta get your timing down rockin buddy. Ask it, look in the eye, confidently, and wait for reaction, say what u need to say in case you do, and go for it but dont go too fast or you'll just rush her and dont go too slow because that removed the whole purpose for it. But overall good line.
 

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Bawb14 said:
The Do you like surprises line is actually quite decent. I have to admit I read your post and tried it out earlier today, worked for me haha! But you gotta get your timing down rockin buddy. Ask it, look in the eye, confidently, and wait for reaction, say what u need to say in case you do, and go for it but dont go too fast or you'll just rush her and dont go too slow because that removed the whole purpose for it. But overall good line.
wait you actually tried that line today lol?
 

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Yeah i really liked it after reading it couple days ago. Was like, gottttt to try that out.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Yeah I cant remember where I saw it on here, but I saw it at first and thought it sounded pretty cool. I dunno though maybe girls would think thats pretty cheesy.
 

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Its not about the line its about the tension and about how you deliver it. You can say something random like "I enjoy cheese" and go in for the kill, and still nail it if you are getting good chemistry and if your approach is good.
 
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