"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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A few questions on high school girls

Bawb14

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Yeah well, this one time, this guy was like, GIVE ME YOUR PENCIL, and I was like all... No waaay maaan this is my pencil, and he called me a butthead and i called him a doodooface. Haha sorry sorry, I joke. I just had to throw that in there.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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lol a butterhead and a doodooface? Hahahaha

by the way has anyone answered the 3rd question in my first post yet?
 

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The Do you like surprises line is actually quite decent. I have to admit I read your post and tried it out earlier today, worked for me haha! But you gotta get your timing down rockin buddy. Ask it, look in the eye, confidently, and wait for reaction, say what u need to say in case you do, and go for it but dont go too fast or you'll just rush her and dont go too slow because that removed the whole purpose for it. But overall good line.
 

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Bawb14 said:
The Do you like surprises line is actually quite decent. I have to admit I read your post and tried it out earlier today, worked for me haha! But you gotta get your timing down rockin buddy. Ask it, look in the eye, confidently, and wait for reaction, say what u need to say in case you do, and go for it but dont go too fast or you'll just rush her and dont go too slow because that removed the whole purpose for it. But overall good line.
wait you actually tried that line today lol?
 

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Yeah i really liked it after reading it couple days ago. Was like, gottttt to try that out.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Yeah I cant remember where I saw it on here, but I saw it at first and thought it sounded pretty cool. I dunno though maybe girls would think thats pretty cheesy.
 

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Its not about the line its about the tension and about how you deliver it. You can say something random like "I enjoy cheese" and go in for the kill, and still nail it if you are getting good chemistry and if your approach is good.
 
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