A few questions on high school girls

[rockman]

1. At parties, (and i know this has already been discussed on the forum, but i figured it may apply differently with girls in HS) is it okay to get a boner when grinding with a girl? My friends and I joke around about this sometimes, but they all think its really weird and awkward. Keep in mind tho, this is high school girls in talking about.

2. If your at a party, wheres a good place to hook up with someone?

3. Is there anything I should say to a girl if I wanted to hook up with her? I know I read somewhere on this forum of a pretty good line that was like, "Hey do you like surprises?" if shes says "yes" then you can hook up with her. This a good idea?

 

[Eklipse]

I can answer some of your questions. When your at a high school party the best way to hook up with a girl is isolate her. Then talk about whatever use tons of kino and then you pretty much got it especially if theres alcohol involved. I'm not sure if I would use that cheesy line though haha.

 

[rockman]

lol yeah I thought that line sounded a bit cheesy.

Anyways, can anyone else plz answer my questions?

Thanks

 

[Bawb14]

Well Rockman, I'm a Junior in high school, and if you dont mind me asking, what grade are you in? Im not asking you to disclose your age. Also, do you drink or smoke, and on a scale of 1-10 rate your "badness". How much Illegal/Immoral/Crazy stuff do you do? There are different High school girls out there, and you must apply different strategies on different ones, at different parties. As for grinding, I know it hurts, but think of something horribly mundane or something horribly un-sexual or ugly to help with your... problem so to speak, because yeah, its a little weird. I always think of 1.Sailors, 2.U.S constitution or 3.Fat girls and that always helps. Cheers!:box:

 

[Bawb14]

Double Post!Srry

 

[rockman]

Well Rockman, I'm a Junior in high school, and if you dont mind me asking, what grade are you in? Im not asking you to disclose your age. Also, do you drink or smoke, and on a scale of 1-10 rate your "badness". How much Illegal/Immoral/Crazy stuff do you do? There are different High school girls out there, and you must apply different strategies on different ones, at different parties. As for grinding, I know it hurts, but think of something horribly mundane or something horribly un-sexual or ugly to help with your... problem so to speak, because yeah, its a little weird. I always think of 1.Sailors, 2.U.S constitution or 3.Fat girls and that always helps. Cheers!:box:

Im a sophomore, I dont drink or smoke, and I would rate my badness (with 10 being the baddest kid ever) as like a 3.

 

[War Against Betaism]

I usually get boners when grinding a girl but they seem to love it. What I love doing is we eventually switch positions where we're grinding each other facing each other, and I rub my c0ck all over her leg and they love it.

 

[rockman]

A lot of people have told me that girls dont mind it/love it, but its those few people that say its really weird and awkward which keep me asking lol.

 

[Eklipse]

A lot of people have told me that girls dont mind it/love it, but its those few people that say its really weird and awkward which keep me asking lol.

It depends on the girl. If you rate your badness at a 3 I doubt the girls that you typically hang out with would like that kind of thing, girls that don't drink or smoke are usually very prude in high school. I would rate myself at a 8.5 and the girls I typically hang out would be pissed if they didn't give a guy a boner when grinding haha.

 

[Bawb14]

Good post eklipse, But yeah what he says is generaly true. If you're a 3 then in reality, you're a 0. No offence. In fact, its good you'll get farther in life. But still, try and take it easy with girls that you hang out with, they will appreciate it more. Try not to go for the macho jerk approach, but for the sensitive intelligent type. Talk to them, and really get into them before they can begin to get into you. Just start talking and let go, just talk talk talk, works every time. Dont dominate the conversation let her get a few words in edgewise and really try to give the vibe that you are digging her and that you really understand what theyre saying even if it seems like BULLSH1t at the time. Some guys get away with being rude ****s and girls love it, but its not your approach buddy. Stickwith the basics and you'll feel yourself more confident and your game to such a level that party-hooking up will be NO problem, but dont plan on it and dont go for it first time you try, or trust me results NOT guaranteed! Good luck in your romantic affairs Junior pickupartist.

 

[rockman]

Good post eklipse, But yeah what he says is generaly true. If you're a 3 then in reality, you're a 0. No offence. In fact, its good you'll get farther in life. But still, try and take it easy with girls that you hang out with, they will appreciate it more. Try not to go for the macho jerk approach, but for the sensitive intelligent type. Talk to them, and really get into them before they can begin to get into you. Just start talking and let go, just talk talk talk, works every time. Dont dominate the conversation let her get a few words in edgewise and really try to give the vibe that you are digging her and that you really understand what theyre saying even if it seems like BULLSH1t at the time. Some guys get away with being rude ****s and girls love it, but its not your approach buddy. Stickwith the basics and you'll feel yourself more confident and your game to such a level that party-hooking up will be NO problem, but dont plan on it and dont go for it first time you try, or trust me results NOT guaranteed! Good luck in your romantic affairs Junior pickupartist.

Umm, okay. Just wondering, but have you even glanced at the DJ Bible yet? I know your really new here and it just seems like the advice your giving me is a little off compared to some of the members that have been here for some time.

 

[Bawb14]

Well thats because the Bible is geared for Jerks. Your not a jerk are you?! Its a good read and good to remember, but like the real bible, dont take everything too litereraly. Read between the lines.

 

[Creepy Spence]

1. At parties, (and i know this has already been discussed on the forum, but i figured it may apply differently with girls in HS) is it okay to get a boner when grinding with a girl? My friends and I joke around about this sometimes, but they all think its really weird and awkward. Keep in mind tho, this is high school girls in talking about.

2. If your at a party, wheres a good place to hook up with someone?

3. Is there anything I should say to a girl if I wanted to hook up with her? I know I read somewhere on this forum of a pretty good line that was like, "Hey do you like surprises?" if shes says "yes" then you can hook up with her. This a good idea?

you're a little creepfest. if youre reffering to this website for sex advice, you more than likely rape your first time.

 

[Bawb14]

Says "creepy spence"

 

[Bawb14]

First time with preppy high school girls might be a little weird to pop a fatty while dancing dont you think krazy? otherwise, yes I completely agree.

 

[Drumstick]

Good post eklipse, But yeah what he says is generaly true. If you're a 3 then in reality, you're a 0. No offence. In fact, its good you'll get farther in life. But still, try and take it easy with girls that you hang out with, they will appreciate it more. Try not to go for the macho jerk approach, but for the sensitive intelligent type. Talk to them, and really get into them before they can begin to get into you. Just start talking and let go, just talk talk talk, works every time. Dont dominate the conversation let her get a few words in edgewise and really try to give the vibe that you are digging her and that you really understand what theyre saying even if it seems like BULLSH1t at the time. Some guys get away with being rude ****s and girls love it, but its not your approach buddy. Stickwith the basics and you'll feel yourself more confident and your game to such a level that party-hooking up will be NO problem, but dont plan on it and dont go for it first time you try, or trust me results NOT guaranteed! Good luck in your romantic affairs Junior pickupartist.

I have serious doubts about this. You're telling me that if I just talk intellectually/emotionally with a girl and build no kind of sexual tension she will want to hook up? You're telling me that if I do those things you mentioned, I'll get girls?

Well, as a matter of fact, I used to do that. Know why its only used to? Because it didn't work. The exact opposite happened, she wanted me to hang out as her lapdog "he's just a friend" thing. As the sensitive intelligent type, it was me she turned to when she wanted to talk about girl problems and what guys she actually wanted to bang at parties. I ran like hell, to say the least.

Please, please give us a semi-detailed account of when this advice has been effective. I'm guessing the "results not garunteed" is french for "this has never worked for me".

There is some theory that attraction goes in steps. The steps are Attraction--->Comfort--->Sex. The problem a lot of guys have, including this guy and including myself at some point, is that they approach it with Comfort--->Attraction--->Sex in mind. But that doesn't work. ****, I'll just link to the theory.

http://ladderwiki.com/w/index.php/M3_Model

You know, you can still be an intelligent and sensitive person who can be the rude *******. Remember that when you are being a rude *******, its a joke. Thats why you do it with a big smile and a laugh -its just teasing. You don't need to actually be an *******, just adopt some ******* type qualities to your existing personallity. This has worked a lot better for me in many, many ways.

I imagine most guys who say getting sprung during a dance is weird and awkward are uncomfortable with themselves. As someone said, she is rubbing you with her ass, if you get hard, thats nice. Just be comfortable with it.

So about the whole "badness" scale... how do you measure your badness, and how bad is it ideal to be? What qualities make you a badass?
For now, I'll try a hypothetical scale.

1)Preist (well... a preist that actually follows the rules)
10)Drug dealer with criminal record and three kids by three women

What qualities and characteristics make you "bad". We don't have to actually make a scale... I'm just wondering. Does drinking make you "bad", even though its kind of the norm, even in high school? Smoking? Just wondering what you guys think.

 

[Bawb14]

Perfect post Drumstick. Waiting for someone to contradict me with a good arguement. Sticky-Worthy IMHO. But the idea remains that different girls want a different approach, all of them are different. That in mind, what you said is of perfect relevance.

 

[Drumstick]

Perfect post Drumstick. Waiting for someone to contradict me with a good arguement. Sticky-Worthy IMHO. But the idea remains that different girls want a different approach, all of them are different. That in mind, what you said is of perfect relevance.

I totally agree with that bolded part, its definitely true, but the M3 model still stands.

 

[rockman]

Well in that case Drumstick, I would consider myself a 5. I pretty much dont drink or smoke at all, but I still get into arguments and fights a bit at school.

 

[rockman]

you get into arguments? alright you're definitely a 10

Hahaha