"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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A few questions on high school girls

Bawb14

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Yeah well, this one time, this guy was like, GIVE ME YOUR PENCIL, and I was like all... No waaay maaan this is my pencil, and he called me a butthead and i called him a doodooface. Haha sorry sorry, I joke. I just had to throw that in there.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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lol a butterhead and a doodooface? Hahahaha

by the way has anyone answered the 3rd question in my first post yet?
 

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The Do you like surprises line is actually quite decent. I have to admit I read your post and tried it out earlier today, worked for me haha! But you gotta get your timing down rockin buddy. Ask it, look in the eye, confidently, and wait for reaction, say what u need to say in case you do, and go for it but dont go too fast or you'll just rush her and dont go too slow because that removed the whole purpose for it. But overall good line.
 

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Bawb14 said:
The Do you like surprises line is actually quite decent. I have to admit I read your post and tried it out earlier today, worked for me haha! But you gotta get your timing down rockin buddy. Ask it, look in the eye, confidently, and wait for reaction, say what u need to say in case you do, and go for it but dont go too fast or you'll just rush her and dont go too slow because that removed the whole purpose for it. But overall good line.
wait you actually tried that line today lol?
 

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Yeah i really liked it after reading it couple days ago. Was like, gottttt to try that out.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Yeah I cant remember where I saw it on here, but I saw it at first and thought it sounded pretty cool. I dunno though maybe girls would think thats pretty cheesy.
 

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Its not about the line its about the tension and about how you deliver it. You can say something random like "I enjoy cheese" and go in for the kill, and still nail it if you are getting good chemistry and if your approach is good.
 
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