Yeah well, this one time, this guy was like, GIVE ME YOUR PENCIL, and I was like all... No waaay maaan this is my pencil, and he called me a butthead and i called him a doodooface. Haha sorry sorry, I joke. I just had to throw that in there.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
wait you actually tried that line today lol?Bawb14 said:The Do you like surprises line is actually quite decent. I have to admit I read your post and tried it out earlier today, worked for me haha! But you gotta get your timing down rockin buddy. Ask it, look in the eye, confidently, and wait for reaction, say what u need to say in case you do, and go for it but dont go too fast or you'll just rush her and dont go too slow because that removed the whole purpose for it. But overall good line.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.