That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Cause bytches fall for the game, getting pumped and dumped . What do they expect?
@ 2:15: "You can't be cheap and ugly"
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Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Gals have trouble finding good sex. Guys have trouble finding any sex at all (SS members excluded of course)Quality attracts quality. You can tell she has nothing to offer. She is 44 and should act like it. Definitely not a lady with class. I know women like her. I am pretty sure she trashes everyone of her girlfriends. I see her being single for a very long time.
Good point, I believe this is true for many guys, some are simply unable due to lack of experience while others (myself incluced) have to work so much and tolerate so much bullsh1t to get sex than once we finally achieve it, we run out of fvcks to give about her and focus on our pleasure only.Despite her looks she is telling the truth. Most Guys dont put any effort ininto being aweome in thr sack and as such far overestimate their skills. Its why I am always in demand.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
And that’s why guys will often times just leave a girl after having sex and never talk to her ever again after. It’s because all the **** they put us through prior to getting there and then once we actually do get we we originally came for, she just doesn’t look nearly as good or sucked so much worse than she should have and we feel like it’s just not worth it to talk to her anymore. They’ll think we are horrible guys after for breaking their hearts but they’re the ones who were leading us on in the first place, making us think that they actually WERE so much more than they really are. Then we find out otherwise and that we were wrong all along.Good point, I believe this is true for many guys, some are simply unable due to lack of experience while others (myself incluced) have to work so much and tolerate so much bullsh1t to get sex than once we finally achieve it, we run out of fvcks to give about her and focus on our pleasure only.
A guy has a limited number of fvcks and efforts to give and if the average girl make them burn them all during the "gaming phase", she has no right to complain if the bastard takes what he can and leaves.