Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
44 y.o. dumpy harridan : Their [sic] is a Lack of Quality D!ck in 2017
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
MrWood
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no wonder she gets pump-n-dump
just spent 2 weekends with a 44yo... 5'1 98lbs tits like a teen and cute
no way I would even say hello or a nod/smile to the lady in that video... lmao
mrgoodstuff
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Cause bytches fall for the game, getting pumped and dumped . What do they expect?
@ 2:15: "You can't be cheap and ugly"
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
R.U.G.
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Here's a good vid from her too. Real classy. Though, I am sure there's another side to the story...
MatureDJ
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Her figure is about as bad as a non-obese woman's figure could be. With most chicks with flabby arms, you at least get the big teats. I think my d!ck wouldn't work with her either. I think it's something hard-coded into men to go limp when inside a possible tranny. 
logicallefty
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Gals have trouble finding good sex. Guys have trouble finding any sex at all (SS members excluded of course)
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Who Dares Win
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Good point, I believe this is true for many guys, some are simply unable due to lack of experience while others (myself incluced) have to work so much and tolerate so much bullsh1t to get sex than once we finally achieve it, we run out of fvcks to give about her and focus on our pleasure only.
A guy has a limited number of fvcks and efforts to give and if the average girl make them burn them all during the "gaming phase", she has no right to complain if the bastard takes what he can and leaves.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
ImTheDoubleGreatest!
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And that’s why guys will often times just leave a girl after having sex and never talk to her ever again after. It’s because all the **** they put us through prior to getting there and then once we actually do get we we originally came for, she just doesn’t look nearly as good or sucked so much worse than she should have and we feel like it’s just not worth it to talk to her anymore. They’ll think we are horrible guys after for breaking their hearts but they’re the ones who were leading us on in the first place, making us think that they actually WERE so much more than they really are. Then we find out otherwise and that we were wrong all along.
Yeah, we treated you like a queen and showed that we cared because you had us keep on believing more and more that taking the next step would be more meaningful with you, that having sex would have even more meaning and be greater than anything else prior. But then we find out that you were just all talk and that you only looked good because of the nice clothes and makeup and the veneer of materialistic things surrounding you. When we strip all that away, you dont look good, you don’t know what you are doing, and you can’t even do anything for us. Yet it’s OUR fault for ‘leading you on’ or ‘breaking your heart’ or ‘only wanting sex’. Nope. It’s much more than that. We just aren’t as vocal about us as you women are.
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