"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
44 y.o. dumpy harridan : Their [sic] is a Lack of Quality D!ck in 2017
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
MrWood
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no wonder she gets pump-n-dump
just spent 2 weekends with a 44yo... 5'1 98lbs tits like a teen and cute
no way I would even say hello or a nod/smile to the lady in that video... lmao
mrgoodstuff
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Cause bytches fall for the game, getting pumped and dumped . What do they expect?
@ 2:15: "You can't be cheap and ugly"
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
R.U.G.
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Here's a good vid from her too. Real classy. Though, I am sure there's another side to the story...
MatureDJ
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Her figure is about as bad as a non-obese woman's figure could be. With most chicks with flabby arms, you at least get the big teats. I think my d!ck wouldn't work with her either. I think it's something hard-coded into men to go limp when inside a possible tranny. 
logicallefty
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Gals have trouble finding good sex. Guys have trouble finding any sex at all (SS members excluded of course)
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Who Dares Win
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Good point, I believe this is true for many guys, some are simply unable due to lack of experience while others (myself incluced) have to work so much and tolerate so much bullsh1t to get sex than once we finally achieve it, we run out of fvcks to give about her and focus on our pleasure only.
A guy has a limited number of fvcks and efforts to give and if the average girl make them burn them all during the "gaming phase", she has no right to complain if the bastard takes what he can and leaves.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
ImTheDoubleGreatest!
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And that’s why guys will often times just leave a girl after having sex and never talk to her ever again after. It’s because all the **** they put us through prior to getting there and then once we actually do get we we originally came for, she just doesn’t look nearly as good or sucked so much worse than she should have and we feel like it’s just not worth it to talk to her anymore. They’ll think we are horrible guys after for breaking their hearts but they’re the ones who were leading us on in the first place, making us think that they actually WERE so much more than they really are. Then we find out otherwise and that we were wrong all along.
Yeah, we treated you like a queen and showed that we cared because you had us keep on believing more and more that taking the next step would be more meaningful with you, that having sex would have even more meaning and be greater than anything else prior. But then we find out that you were just all talk and that you only looked good because of the nice clothes and makeup and the veneer of materialistic things surrounding you. When we strip all that away, you dont look good, you don’t know what you are doing, and you can’t even do anything for us. Yet it’s OUR fault for ‘leading you on’ or ‘breaking your heart’ or ‘only wanting sex’. Nope. It’s much more than that. We just aren’t as vocal about us as you women are.
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