She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Cause bytches fall for the game, getting pumped and dumped . What do they expect?
@ 2:15: "You can't be cheap and ugly"
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She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Gals have trouble finding good sex. Guys have trouble finding any sex at all (SS members excluded of course)Quality attracts quality. You can tell she has nothing to offer. She is 44 and should act like it. Definitely not a lady with class. I know women like her. I am pretty sure she trashes everyone of her girlfriends. I see her being single for a very long time.
Good point, I believe this is true for many guys, some are simply unable due to lack of experience while others (myself incluced) have to work so much and tolerate so much bullsh1t to get sex than once we finally achieve it, we run out of fvcks to give about her and focus on our pleasure only.Despite her looks she is telling the truth. Most Guys dont put any effort ininto being aweome in thr sack and as such far overestimate their skills. Its why I am always in demand.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
And that’s why guys will often times just leave a girl after having sex and never talk to her ever again after. It’s because all the **** they put us through prior to getting there and then once we actually do get we we originally came for, she just doesn’t look nearly as good or sucked so much worse than she should have and we feel like it’s just not worth it to talk to her anymore. They’ll think we are horrible guys after for breaking their hearts but they’re the ones who were leading us on in the first place, making us think that they actually WERE so much more than they really are. Then we find out otherwise and that we were wrong all along.Good point, I believe this is true for many guys, some are simply unable due to lack of experience while others (myself incluced) have to work so much and tolerate so much bullsh1t to get sex than once we finally achieve it, we run out of fvcks to give about her and focus on our pleasure only.
A guy has a limited number of fvcks and efforts to give and if the average girl make them burn them all during the "gaming phase", she has no right to complain if the bastard takes what he can and leaves.