"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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37 years old, game and self-improvement aware... THEORY but not PRACTICE

PUSHUP

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Hi Guys,
I've been reading game and masculine self-improvement stuff for years. I've got the online business, spent three years travelling the world, got a strong body from working out, and a good library of solid books...

I read and experimented with some game back in 2007, met a great girl and in a hurry got married a short while later.

Now in 2015, the desire is gone from the relationship and I'm looking to get back into the game. Still living with wifey but want to put on my training wheels and see how the world looks now I'm 37 and with a head full of grey hair!

I live in a country where I don't speak the language beyond 'hello' and 'thank you' so that adds to the difficulties a little.

I read a The Rational Male over Christmas and decided its time to actually reach out to the guys here to help grow a bit of backbone in this area of life.

Will be studying the DJ Bible next and putting it in to practice. I'll let you know how I get on, and sending you salutations from Prague in the Czech Republic!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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dustmuffin

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Hi Guys,
I've been reading game and masculine self-improvement stuff for years. I've got the online business, spent three years travelling the world, got a strong body from working out, and a good library of solid books...

I read and experimented with some game back in 2007, met a great girl and in a hurry got married a short while later.

Now in 2015, the desire is gone from the relationship and I'm looking to get back into the game. Still living with wifey but want to put on my training wheels and see how the world looks now I'm 37 and with a head full of grey hair!

I live in a country where I don't speak the language beyond 'hello' and 'thank you' so that adds to the difficulties a little.

I read a The Rational Male over Christmas and decided its time to actually reach out to the guys here to help grow a bit of backbone in this area of life.

Will be studying the DJ Bible next and putting it in to practice. I'll let you know how I get on, and sending you salutations from Prague in the Czech Republic!
Your wife a native? Take Czech lessons.
 

evan12

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I always encourage fields reports from guys over 30 as we share experience .
Czech women are very nice compared to here in north america , I think if you learn some language you will be able to get women.
Keep us posted
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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