"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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37 years old, game and self-improvement aware... THEORY but not PRACTICE

PUSHUP

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Hi Guys,
I've been reading game and masculine self-improvement stuff for years. I've got the online business, spent three years travelling the world, got a strong body from working out, and a good library of solid books...

I read and experimented with some game back in 2007, met a great girl and in a hurry got married a short while later.

Now in 2015, the desire is gone from the relationship and I'm looking to get back into the game. Still living with wifey but want to put on my training wheels and see how the world looks now I'm 37 and with a head full of grey hair!

I live in a country where I don't speak the language beyond 'hello' and 'thank you' so that adds to the difficulties a little.

I read a The Rational Male over Christmas and decided its time to actually reach out to the guys here to help grow a bit of backbone in this area of life.

Will be studying the DJ Bible next and putting it in to practice. I'll let you know how I get on, and sending you salutations from Prague in the Czech Republic!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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dustmuffin

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Hi Guys,
I've been reading game and masculine self-improvement stuff for years. I've got the online business, spent three years travelling the world, got a strong body from working out, and a good library of solid books...

I read and experimented with some game back in 2007, met a great girl and in a hurry got married a short while later.

Now in 2015, the desire is gone from the relationship and I'm looking to get back into the game. Still living with wifey but want to put on my training wheels and see how the world looks now I'm 37 and with a head full of grey hair!

I live in a country where I don't speak the language beyond 'hello' and 'thank you' so that adds to the difficulties a little.

I read a The Rational Male over Christmas and decided its time to actually reach out to the guys here to help grow a bit of backbone in this area of life.

Will be studying the DJ Bible next and putting it in to practice. I'll let you know how I get on, and sending you salutations from Prague in the Czech Republic!
Your wife a native? Take Czech lessons.
 

evan12

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I always encourage fields reports from guys over 30 as we share experience .
Czech women are very nice compared to here in north america , I think if you learn some language you will be able to get women.
Keep us posted
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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