“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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2nd annual approach anxiety competition

I'm in the Mood

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I'm in. I have extremely bad approach anxiety.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Robyn923b said:
It would be unfair to compete against less experienced lads and to contribute to their anxiety by defeating them. My AA is still present, but not to the extent that it was before. Upon reflection, I agree that it is time to let other guys a chance to win. However...



I want to help new guys get over their anxiety and define the winner from the last competition once and for all.

Let's break down challenges into two categories: I. New participants II. Top 4 previous participants. This way we can coach the new guys and give them challenges. At the same time, the four of us will compete to see who is the best without interfering with their progress and motivation. This way, we would post our interactions and gentlemen new to the game would have the opportunity to see our moves and learn from them. Additionally, I will help you create the challenges for the new participants. As for the advanced challenges, we (the top 4) will create them consensually so that we have realistic, challenging goals that will move us to the next level.

PM me your thoughts.

Excellent Idea. Let's do it.
 

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coaches don't normally participate (but i understand u guys want to participate as well).

If you guys were more experienced i'd say each person could pick a few people to coach. If their gladiator won....that would be awesome haha.

If you guys do decide to have your own competition i suggest starting a new thread as your posts may hinder ours or discourage some others.
 

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when does the tournament start? i dont want to be left behind haha
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I'm in the Mood

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AAAgent said:
coaches don't normally participate (but i understand u guys want to participate as well).

If you guys were more experienced i'd say each person could pick a few people to coach. If their gladiator won....that would be awesome haha.

If you guys do decide to have your own competition i suggest starting a new thread as your posts may hinder ours or discourage some others.
How about if we create teams? This could be more interesting and have a greater impact on this community.
 

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I'm in the Mood said:
How about if we create teams? This could be more interesting and have a greater impact on this community.

Too complicated, that'll just get confusing after a while. It'll just be a good ol' fashioned last man standing tourney.
 

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black jesus said:
when does the tournament start? i dont want to be left behind haha

I'm looking at a January 5th start date. DOn't worry, nobody is going to be left behind because I will message everybody who enters, reminding them of the start date and objective.
 

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AAAgent said:
coaches don't normally participate (but i understand u guys want to participate as well).

If you guys were more experienced i'd say each person could pick a few people to coach. If their gladiator won....that would be awesome haha.

If you guys do decide to have your own competition i suggest starting a new thread as your posts may hinder ours or discourage some others.

Yeah, we talked it over and we're going to do what you suggested. This thread will for you guys and will be moderated by me, Robyn and AJ.
 

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not sure yet. i live in an small town now so it takes me a little while like 30 mins to get to a place big enough to do this. i don't have a car or heaps of money...


ah.. **** it... i'm in
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Updated List of Participants so far:

AAAgent
Black Jesus
Btownbuck2012
Donjuanit0
TheMusic
Roman81
I'm in the mood
Packers2010
3countriesplan
Badboyjmm
dandelion


Come on guys, it's a new start to a new year. Time to make a change. Those of you lurking need to get working.
 
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I'm in, approaching is a weak part of my game (I rely on social circle and night game 70% of the time) and I want to approach more this year turning the ratio over to 70% daygame...

I should add that if you guys have any strict limits on posting time that I won't be able to make them probably so I can just take part as an unofficial participant.. haha, will be in Hong Kong for another week then headed to the Bay Area and then Portland and MAYBE Las Vegas next month
 

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Gray The Prince said:
Yeah, we talked it over and we're going to do what you suggested. This thread will for you guys and will be moderated by me, Robyn and AJ.
Hey, I'd like to contribute. I'll finish out our Top 4 slot.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I don't have any prospect, so beating the anxiety will be great. Put me in
 

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This sounds interesting, and I think a clear goal will help my AA.

And I live in a city where I see chicks I should approach multiple times per day.

Sign me up!
 

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The above list has been updated as of 12/30/2011 at 8:43 am CST.


Come on guys, more of you NEED to sign up. A year from now, you will wish you started today!
 

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Deicide said:
Hey, I'd like to contribute. I'll finish out our Top 4 slot.
We have a competition you can join. GTP and I are in it. You can join since you were in the last 4.This is to set the winner once for all.

As for your contribution, PM GTP and I your thoughts and we'll take it from there.
 

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Is the game going to be identical to the first one or are you guys going to make changes? I haven't read the first thread yet, so I'll want to study that if we're copying it.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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