Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Hey Filth,Purefilth said:today is the day to "SHUT UP AND SQUAT!!!"
frontsquat 50kg x 12
Backsquat
100kg x 8
120kg x 3
140kg x 2
145kg x 1*****PR*****
120kg x 1
100kg x 5
90kg x 5
90kg x 5
calves - 3 sets
leg press - 120kg
2 sets 12
I had more in me, but im waiting on some new knee wraps as I lost my ones, and I do not like these neoprene pieces of crap that I have for the moment to improvise.
ill smash out a decent weight for a set of 12 then add more for a couple of working sets - then maybe a third.Ronaldo7 said:Hey Filth,
I was wondering about your leg press. Do you simply do a set weight for sets and reps or do you add weight as sets progress?
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Leg press works everything a bit. If you are going the full range of motion, you will develop it nicely. Do you do drop sets after the 12 x 3 sets? Since leg press has a short range of motion compared to other exercises, you could try incorporating drop sets that will really extract all the juice. Example: If you do 12 with 11 45's on each, you could try taking out 3 plates from each side. Do say 10-12, take out 3 more, do 12-15, take out 3 more do 15-20. That has worked very, very well for me.Purefilth said:ill smash out a decent weight for a set of 12 then add more for a couple of working sets - then maybe a third.
It all depends on what I got out on squats before - If ive smashed some volume and cant make it down the stairs then I will skip leg press altogether.
If ive put through low volume but high intensity on backsquats then I need to get a decent pump before I go.
Plus I take a wide stance - which hits the posterior chain more, so I still have a lot left in my quads then ill keep adding weight till I cant do a set of 12 anymore.
I diversify a lot - As long as you hit the big 3 every week then shiit like leg press is optional pump material. It may not work for everyone but it does me well enough.![]()
Ronaldo7 said:Leg press works everything a bit. If you are going the full range of motion, you will develop it nicely. Do you do drop sets after the 12 x 3 sets? Since leg press has a short range of motion compared to other exercises, you could try incorporating drop sets that will really extract all the juice. Example: If you do 12 with 11 45's on each, you could try taking out 3 plates from each side. Do say 10-12, take out 3 more, do 12-15, take out 3 more do 15-20. That has worked very, very well for me.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Classic moviePurefilth said:You're thinking "generation iron" I'm talking old school 70's with Arnold in his prime![]()
Can't forget about this either: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8sHvWYAzIRoEspi said:A very motivational film--best part is Waller hiding Katz' blue t-shirt.
And Arnold giving "advices."
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.