She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Hey Filth,Purefilth said:today is the day to "SHUT UP AND SQUAT!!!"
frontsquat 50kg x 12
Backsquat
100kg x 8
120kg x 3
140kg x 2
145kg x 1*****PR*****
120kg x 1
100kg x 5
90kg x 5
90kg x 5
calves - 3 sets
leg press - 120kg
2 sets 12
I had more in me, but im waiting on some new knee wraps as I lost my ones, and I do not like these neoprene pieces of crap that I have for the moment to improvise.
ill smash out a decent weight for a set of 12 then add more for a couple of working sets - then maybe a third.Ronaldo7 said:Hey Filth,
I was wondering about your leg press. Do you simply do a set weight for sets and reps or do you add weight as sets progress?
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Leg press works everything a bit. If you are going the full range of motion, you will develop it nicely. Do you do drop sets after the 12 x 3 sets? Since leg press has a short range of motion compared to other exercises, you could try incorporating drop sets that will really extract all the juice. Example: If you do 12 with 11 45's on each, you could try taking out 3 plates from each side. Do say 10-12, take out 3 more, do 12-15, take out 3 more do 15-20. That has worked very, very well for me.Purefilth said:ill smash out a decent weight for a set of 12 then add more for a couple of working sets - then maybe a third.
It all depends on what I got out on squats before - If ive smashed some volume and cant make it down the stairs then I will skip leg press altogether.
If ive put through low volume but high intensity on backsquats then I need to get a decent pump before I go.
Plus I take a wide stance - which hits the posterior chain more, so I still have a lot left in my quads then ill keep adding weight till I cant do a set of 12 anymore.
I diversify a lot - As long as you hit the big 3 every week then shiit like leg press is optional pump material. It may not work for everyone but it does me well enough.![]()
Ronaldo7 said:Leg press works everything a bit. If you are going the full range of motion, you will develop it nicely. Do you do drop sets after the 12 x 3 sets? Since leg press has a short range of motion compared to other exercises, you could try incorporating drop sets that will really extract all the juice. Example: If you do 12 with 11 45's on each, you could try taking out 3 plates from each side. Do say 10-12, take out 3 more, do 12-15, take out 3 more do 15-20. That has worked very, very well for me.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Classic moviePurefilth said:You're thinking "generation iron" I'm talking old school 70's with Arnold in his prime![]()
Can't forget about this either: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8sHvWYAzIRoEspi said:A very motivational film--best part is Waller hiding Katz' blue t-shirt.
And Arnold giving "advices."
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.