"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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End of the years lift was a brutal deadlift and upper back session, Rep PR all over the deadlifts - 180kg x 4, 160kg x 6, hit 205kg x 1 but missed the max 210kg.

Body still hurts from 2 days ago, rotator cuff is still grieving, and I was drinking new years and still haven't fully recovered :(

Oh well - Start the new year with a chest session.

Dips and pullups to begin.
predictably the bench is full, so-
Incline DB press
35kg DBs
x 12
x10
x9

32.5DBs
x 8
x 7

phucking hard work here - good reminder why I don't drink often

DB Pullovers
32.5kg
x 20
x 20
x21 (rep for jesus):p

Decline close grip
60kg x 12
80kg x 10
80kg x 8
(rotator pain - give up)

incline fly - cable
27kg each side
x 12
x 12
x 8

put 5lb in each hand and held arms out straight to each side - for about a minute - gets a nice warm feeling around the shoulders then hurts like a biitch.

pullups and press-ups halfhearted attempt at these here - really struggling to sweat out the booze, its cool though - I came and sweated, started the new year the way it should be done.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Purefilth said:
End of the years lift was a brutal deadlift and upper back session, Rep PR all over the deadlifts - 180kg x 4, 160kg x 6, hit 205kg x 1 but missed the max 210kg.

Body still hurts from 2 days ago, rotator cuff is still grieving, and I was drinking new years and still haven't fully recovered :(

Oh well - Start the new year with a chest session.

Dips and pullups to begin.
predictably the bench is full, so-
Incline DB press
35kg DBs
x 12
x10
x9

32.5DBs
x 8
x 7

phucking hard work here - good reminder why I don't drink often

DB Pullovers
32.5kg
x 20
x 20
x21 (rep for jesus):p

Decline close grip
60kg x 12
80kg x 10
80kg x 8
(rotator pain - give up)

incline fly - cable
27kg each side
x 12
x 12
x 8

put 5lb in each hand and held arms out straight to each side - for about a minute - gets a nice warm feeling around the shoulders then hurts like a biitch.

pullups and press-ups halfhearted attempt at these here - really struggling to sweat out the booze, its cool though - I came and sweated, started the new year the way it should be done.
DOM! lol
 

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Leg Day.

Good start to the new year. Train till you feel like puking

:D

On an almost empty stomach today - protein shake for breakfast as I was a lazy mufukka and kipped for an extra half hour!


Focus on the backsquat today.

Frontsquat
60kg(135) x 12

Backsquat

60kg x 8

100kg x 3 , stretched and warmed lets get it on!!!!

3wheeler!!!! -
140kg (315) x 3 - all me, hit parallel on them
140 x 1
140 x 1 - went down for a second one and couldn't move back up :D

120 x 3
120 x 3 - yeeaahh buddy!!!

100 x 4
100 x 4

good strong squats, I'm proud.

calf raises 3 sets of 20

Leg Press
113kg x 12
113kg x 12
113kg x 12

walked out with a wobble got to the van and started to feel sick. made it through though. Good start to the New Years leg session.
 

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ok been away for a week up at my buddys place. tested his gym out, had a back day with him, hit it hard. :)

came back and hit chest, good hit there, no bench because fvking resolutioners were swarming the place - last time I go in the evening fvcking skinny rats in the way of everything - coming up to me
"are you nearly done" when I just got on a machine
on EVERYTHING
fvckin rats.

hit legs nice and heavy, making progress on backsquat - its a nice thing to switch between front and backsquats every couple of weeks or so - stops each one from going stale and they compliment each other well, so progress seems to be constant.

frontsquat 60kg x 12
backsquat 60kg x 12

100 x 3
140 x 2
140 x 1 - failed the 2nd rep here - got stuck in the pit and after about 10 seconds of max effort I decided to set the bar down :D
140 x 1
140 x 1
130 x 2
130 x 2
130 x 1
130 x 1
120 x 3
120 x 3
100 x 6
100 x 5

it was brutal, but I got low. at least parallel for every rep

hit some calves too, fvckin quads tearing up today.

hit shoulders and arms today, klokov press is a beast of an exercise - still crediting switch for that suggestion.

rest day tomorrow, ill get the log back on track after :)
 

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Solid session man. Klokovs do look awesome, even though I've never done them..I will one of these days. Bradford press looks great too
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

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Back day done. In a rush , so no full figures.

Hit a rep PR by slamming 200kg for 4 reps. And another with 180kg for 5 reps.

Peace.
 

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Been a couple of weeks since I got a bench press on chest day, here goes.
dips to start
Bench Press
60 x 12
100 x 6
110 x 4
120 x 1
120 x 1
120 x 1
110 x 3
105 x 3
105 x 2
100 x 4
100 x 4

bench has suffered from not being on it :( - was 10 x 100, 5 -6 x 110, 4 x 120, and had 140 as 1rm :(

ah well, plenty of reps to be done this year

did DB pullovers 35kg
x 20
x 18
x 15

close bench decline
60kg
x 12
x 12
x 12

tricep work to finish


heavy back day may have cause dbench to suffer today, cos ive got doms all over!

we shall see :)
 

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Nice job getting it done, good work!
 

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Did legs Monday and shoulders Tuesday. Back day tomorrow, heavy deadlift time - guy I was doing legs with wants to train deadlifts with me.
 

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on a winner today - New lifting buddy I did legs with on Monday planned for deadlifts with me today.
He asked my max and told me - right, we'll do that, then you'll do 215, then go for 220.

YUP :up: No need to ask me twice :D

70 x 8
110 x 8
150 x 6
190 x 3
200 x 2
210 x 1 (previous Max - horrible form)
fukk 215 - straight for 220 :D

220kg x 1 - let out a roar of genuine struggle halfway up, and it spurred me on to lockout.

484 pounds there Stigg buddy - get your ass on to catchup :D

hahah saw stars after that for a couple of minutes,
tried for 225kg but after all that - I couldn't even get it up a little bit!

dropped the weight back down to 130kg and smashed out 2 sets of 8, that was a struggle too!

Weighted pullups
8 x bodyweight
7 x 25kg
1 x 50kg - went for a second, got halfway and hold till failure.
3 x 40kg, hold to failure on the 3rd
6 x 25kg, hold till failure on the last
6 x bodyweight and hold till failure.

Didn't have time to stay for upper back, but goddamn proud of a new max here especially after all the volume before :D
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Nice Pulling!
 

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Fvck man that's awesome!!! Yeah I bet I could catch up fairly soon on the trap bar, conventional will take a bit longer. I think when you hit 500 lbs (226.xxxkg) a video may be in order, not cause I doubt you, but because I wanna witness it!
 

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You got it buddy, I'll have to have someone with me to film that shiit ;-)
 

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Chest Day

Decline bench
70kg x 12
100kg x 7
100kg x 8

flat bench
110kg x 3
110kg x 3
110kg x 3
110kg x 3
100kg x 3
100kg x 3
90kg - failure
70kg x 12
80kg x 12
80kg x 10
80kg x 10

light cable fly
3 sets 12

oh tricep ext.
3 sets 12

skullcrushers
3 sets 12

We'll get the bench back up, it goes to show how fast strength drops if you neglect something. At least I still have the endurance to smash volume out :D

Got all kiiinds of DOMS from yesterdays session too. :D
 

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Nice work Pure! Could of just been a off day, smash it next time!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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today is the day to "SHUT UP AND SQUAT!!!"

frontsquat 50kg x 12

Backsquat
100kg x 8
120kg x 3
140kg x 2
145kg x 1*****PR*****
120kg x 1
100kg x 5
90kg x 5
90kg x 5


calves - 3 sets

leg press - 120kg
2 sets 12



I had more in me, but im waiting on some new knee wraps as I lost my ones, and I do not like these neoprene pieces of crap that I have for the moment to improvise.
 

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Nice PR!

And since you like to gloat about how behind I am on deadlifts and need to catch up, here's one for ya:




Your back squat PR is my front squat PR.

haha jk good job
 

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Nice PR!

And since you like to gloat about how behind I am on deadlifts and need to catch up, here's one for ya:




Your back squat PR is my front squat PR.

haha jk good job
Challenge accepted...:up:
 

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Terrible training today. Tired and couldn't get into it.

Klokov press 40kg x 12 x 3 sets

One hand Db rows. 35kg x 15 x 4 sets.

Close bench to hit triceps - can't remember what..

But then a buddy called and that was it. 20 minutes :-(
 

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Deadlifts. In the fvcking zone!

70 x 12
120 x 8
170 x 6
190 x 6 rep pr (I think)
200 x 5 rep pr for sure
210 x 2 rep pr for real
170 x 6 this was brutal
140 x 12 fvcking badass.

Gym was full, so I did some pull ups and left the crowds. Will smash upper back on shoulders day.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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