You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
125g protein, with almost half coming from milk...Breakfast
4 eggs 24g protein
2 slices of toast
1 glass of milk 8g protein
Snack
Bran Muffin
1 glass of milk 8g protein
Lunch
Sandwich (i.e. meat, cheese, tuna fish, etc.) 25g protein
piece of fruit
1 glass of milk 8g protein
Snack
Granola bar
Slice of cheese
1 glass of milk 8g protein
Supper
Meat (i.e. chicken, beef, pork, etc.) 50g protein
Pasta, Rice, or Potatoes
Cup of veggies
1 glass of milk 8g protein
Snack
2 slices of toast
1 glass of milk 8g protein
yeah not sure whats going on with that diet, maybe the lunch and dinner meals are huge or something.Quiksilver said:Aye it was interesting Espi, though the diet was staggeringly low in protein while being high in milk.
125g protein, with almost half coming from milk...
Article was great, but the diet is mediocre and wouldn't be good for anyone with a little lactose intolerance. Would be better off with 1-2lbs of red meat and 12-24 eggs, save the milk for the cats.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Espi said:LOL...yeah, that diet advice is whack...I have no idea how people can recommend such minimal nutrients for musclebuilding...it seems like most of the articles I read about nutrition rarely recommend suffcient caloric intake...
The article is interesting...especially the part about the pullovers...I've read a few articles stating that squats and pullovers should be worked as a superset...but I'm not sure I could drink that much freaking milk.