"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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defiancy

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in spanish class, i shut up a chick up, but then later asked me about my ex-gf, in which i never really went out with

This ex was a fourth grade admirer thing...funny huh?

So I ended telling her she goes to some other high school.
Just then another girl who is a slut and a b*tch shouted out loud, "u have a girlfriend?" (not sarcastically or offendingly)

It may not seem like much, but recently I'm DJing couple girls and one of my targets had a thing for me

Since that was shouted out loud, I'm wondering about 2 perceptions she can have

The perception of competition to her or she'll forget about me and move on

I'll see her actions later, but for now what do you think?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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LikRetsam

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English please.
 

Fitch

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Yeah, seriously -- can you rephrase that?
 

defiancy

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Sorry if you didn't understand I'll start again

basically i talked to one girl for a while and she mentions the subject of my exgirlfriend. When she does, another girl outbursts, "you have a girlfriend?"

NOw..lately I've been DJing a girl in my classroom and I wonder if this will effect her, since she heard the outburst as well as the classroom.

I"ve heard that it can suggest competition for a girl, but i'm not sure if it can make a girl give up on you since you're already "taken".

So I hope u can see my picture now
 

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Depending on her personality -- she may or may not give up.

Most likely -- she will. You just have to choose.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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