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defiancy

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in spanish class, i shut up a chick up, but then later asked me about my ex-gf, in which i never really went out with

This ex was a fourth grade admirer thing...funny huh?

So I ended telling her she goes to some other high school.
Just then another girl who is a slut and a b*tch shouted out loud, "u have a girlfriend?" (not sarcastically or offendingly)

It may not seem like much, but recently I'm DJing couple girls and one of my targets had a thing for me

Since that was shouted out loud, I'm wondering about 2 perceptions she can have

The perception of competition to her or she'll forget about me and move on

I'll see her actions later, but for now what do you think?
 

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LikRetsam

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English please.
 

Fitch

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Yeah, seriously -- can you rephrase that?
 

defiancy

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Sorry if you didn't understand I'll start again

basically i talked to one girl for a while and she mentions the subject of my exgirlfriend. When she does, another girl outbursts, "you have a girlfriend?"

NOw..lately I've been DJing a girl in my classroom and I wonder if this will effect her, since she heard the outburst as well as the classroom.

I"ve heard that it can suggest competition for a girl, but i'm not sure if it can make a girl give up on you since you're already "taken".

So I hope u can see my picture now
 

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Depending on her personality -- she may or may not give up.

Most likely -- she will. You just have to choose.
 

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