“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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defiancy

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in spanish class, i shut up a chick up, but then later asked me about my ex-gf, in which i never really went out with

This ex was a fourth grade admirer thing...funny huh?

So I ended telling her she goes to some other high school.
Just then another girl who is a slut and a b*tch shouted out loud, "u have a girlfriend?" (not sarcastically or offendingly)

It may not seem like much, but recently I'm DJing couple girls and one of my targets had a thing for me

Since that was shouted out loud, I'm wondering about 2 perceptions she can have

The perception of competition to her or she'll forget about me and move on

I'll see her actions later, but for now what do you think?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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LikRetsam

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English please.
 

Fitch

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Yeah, seriously -- can you rephrase that?
 

defiancy

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Sorry if you didn't understand I'll start again

basically i talked to one girl for a while and she mentions the subject of my exgirlfriend. When she does, another girl outbursts, "you have a girlfriend?"

NOw..lately I've been DJing a girl in my classroom and I wonder if this will effect her, since she heard the outburst as well as the classroom.

I"ve heard that it can suggest competition for a girl, but i'm not sure if it can make a girl give up on you since you're already "taken".

So I hope u can see my picture now
 

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Depending on her personality -- she may or may not give up.

Most likely -- she will. You just have to choose.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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