"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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defiancy

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in spanish class, i shut up a chick up, but then later asked me about my ex-gf, in which i never really went out with

This ex was a fourth grade admirer thing...funny huh?

So I ended telling her she goes to some other high school.
Just then another girl who is a slut and a b*tch shouted out loud, "u have a girlfriend?" (not sarcastically or offendingly)

It may not seem like much, but recently I'm DJing couple girls and one of my targets had a thing for me

Since that was shouted out loud, I'm wondering about 2 perceptions she can have

The perception of competition to her or she'll forget about me and move on

I'll see her actions later, but for now what do you think?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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LikRetsam

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English please.
 

Fitch

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Yeah, seriously -- can you rephrase that?
 

defiancy

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Sorry if you didn't understand I'll start again

basically i talked to one girl for a while and she mentions the subject of my exgirlfriend. When she does, another girl outbursts, "you have a girlfriend?"

NOw..lately I've been DJing a girl in my classroom and I wonder if this will effect her, since she heard the outburst as well as the classroom.

I"ve heard that it can suggest competition for a girl, but i'm not sure if it can make a girl give up on you since you're already "taken".

So I hope u can see my picture now
 

Fitch

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Depending on her personality -- she may or may not give up.

Most likely -- she will. You just have to choose.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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