mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Part of the game is magnetism. You have to have pull in general.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
10 Steps to Winning Back Your Ex
- Thread starter Harry Wilmington
- Start date
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Tried. Won’t let me send the message. How do I contact Harry?
Hmm.... this is good. Care to elaborate? Remember... I have no exposure to her at the moment. No way of bumping into Her without going out of my way.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Your magnetism is kept HIGH by OTHER women who desire you. Fvck them. Its good for your energy.
Google is your friend, but if you want one to one contact, it will probably cost you…
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
How do you expect her to want you back when even I think u r a loser ?
And before you even start to try to post on why u r not a loser, I've already heard plenty to know ur current mindset.
Ur mindset/knowledge influences how you do things in real life which in turn produces the results currently in ur life.
Go read up the entire DJ Bible and then come back to us.
I will teach you how to get back an Ex if you so desire it.
Is he that good? I’m ok with paying for a one on one if necessary. I even tried getting a 1 on 1 with king rollo himself, but he seems unreachable.
Starting to look like you’ll have to settle for Corey Wayne then…
Get back to us later on that…
Fair enough. I’m not a loser. But I definitely feel like it at the moment. So... point taken. Thank you sir. Before I do that, which I will, have you been successful in pulling this off in the past after MONTHS?
RickTheToad
Moderator
Sorry dude, it happens and it's part of life. We've all been there in some point of our lives. You need to learn from your mistakes and soldier on. Forget about this one. Better yourself and maybe she'd circle back. However, I will stress, not always a good idea to take back the trash once you place it on the curb. I'd just move on and learn from your mistakes. Again, we've all been there in some point of our lives.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
I have 1 ex who has been with me for the past 12 years.
Another I broke up last year and yet she refuses to leave.
I'm still fvcking both ex.
Thanks man. It’s just tough. She’s everything I ever wanted. Had to go thru a ton of girls before finding her. She molded herself to me completely. I built her up, she helped me grow my business, 6 years is a long time to give up.
My ****in hero But did she dump you? Initially. The first one.
Yes she caught me cheating and dumped me good.
Aw but you cheated. Raised perceived value. It’s different.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Lol thanks but no thanks on Corey. It was a question. Is harry good? That was it.
flowtheory
Master Don Juan
This has got to be a troll..
Looks that way.
If you’re refering to me, no. I’m not a troll. Came here for help.
I PM’d you. Read the entire DJ bible. I understand now why it’s so taboo to try and get an ex back, but still would like to try IF and only IF it’s possible to shift the power back to me as that was always the dynamic (until it wasn’t). She was definitely a keeper. I fvcked things up.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.