mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Part of the game is magnetism. You have to have pull in general.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
10 Steps to Winning Back Your Ex
- Thread starter Harry Wilmington
- Start date
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Tried. Won’t let me send the message. How do I contact Harry?
Hmm.... this is good. Care to elaborate? Remember... I have no exposure to her at the moment. No way of bumping into Her without going out of my way.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Your magnetism is kept HIGH by OTHER women who desire you. Fvck them. Its good for your energy.
Google is your friend, but if you want one to one contact, it will probably cost you…
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
How do you expect her to want you back when even I think u r a loser ?
And before you even start to try to post on why u r not a loser, I've already heard plenty to know ur current mindset.
Ur mindset/knowledge influences how you do things in real life which in turn produces the results currently in ur life.
Go read up the entire DJ Bible and then come back to us.
I will teach you how to get back an Ex if you so desire it.
Is he that good? I’m ok with paying for a one on one if necessary. I even tried getting a 1 on 1 with king rollo himself, but he seems unreachable.
Starting to look like you’ll have to settle for Corey Wayne then…
Get back to us later on that…
Fair enough. I’m not a loser. But I definitely feel like it at the moment. So... point taken. Thank you sir. Before I do that, which I will, have you been successful in pulling this off in the past after MONTHS?
RickTheToad
Moderator
Sorry dude, it happens and it's part of life. We've all been there in some point of our lives. You need to learn from your mistakes and soldier on. Forget about this one. Better yourself and maybe she'd circle back. However, I will stress, not always a good idea to take back the trash once you place it on the curb. I'd just move on and learn from your mistakes. Again, we've all been there in some point of our lives.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
I have 1 ex who has been with me for the past 12 years.
Another I broke up last year and yet she refuses to leave.
I'm still fvcking both ex.
Thanks man. It’s just tough. She’s everything I ever wanted. Had to go thru a ton of girls before finding her. She molded herself to me completely. I built her up, she helped me grow my business, 6 years is a long time to give up.
My ****in hero But did she dump you? Initially. The first one.
Yes she caught me cheating and dumped me good.
Aw but you cheated. Raised perceived value. It’s different.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Lol thanks but no thanks on Corey. It was a question. Is harry good? That was it.
flowtheory
Master Don Juan
This has got to be a troll..
Looks that way.
If you’re refering to me, no. I’m not a troll. Came here for help.
I PM’d you. Read the entire DJ bible. I understand now why it’s so taboo to try and get an ex back, but still would like to try IF and only IF it’s possible to shift the power back to me as that was always the dynamic (until it wasn’t). She was definitely a keeper. I fvcked things up.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.