Doctor Europeo
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She´s probably expecting dinner at a nice restaurant and some sort of gift.
Gift ideas? Maybe something inexpensive but thoughtful
Gift ideas? Maybe something inexpensive but thoughtful
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
1 year anniversary with gf coming up in less than a month
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- Start date
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
ImTheDoubleGreatest!
Master Don Juan
Maybe something that's yours that no one can really give her. Say an old sweatshirt because it'll smell like you, or make a drawing of you guys, or something related to an inside joke that only you two know.
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Dépends on the personality
I would do something she aint expecting
Make her dîner, candllight, bed of rose,
3 step: 1)romantic walk 2) romantic dîner 3)bed sport
She get a takeaway shirt too (likely she'l pick your fafavorite)
I remember i was on a diner date once, their was a couple elderly next to us
The man started signing (huming the songs... you know no lyrics but your throat reproducing the sounds)... hé had 60songs
1 Song per year of marriage, is wife was stunning beauty (she look 50 and inshape)... you could see the love in her eyes, she was bending towards him... eyes full of love, her body moved by émotions, she was singing the words of the songs softly, completing him
The entire restaurant stopped moving including the staff for 30minutes
I would do something she aint expecting
Make her dîner, candllight, bed of rose,
3 step: 1)romantic walk 2) romantic dîner 3)bed sport
She get a takeaway shirt too (likely she'l pick your fafavorite)
I remember i was on a diner date once, their was a couple elderly next to us
The man started signing (huming the songs... you know no lyrics but your throat reproducing the sounds)... hé had 60songs
1 Song per year of marriage, is wife was stunning beauty (she look 50 and inshape)... you could see the love in her eyes, she was bending towards him... eyes full of love, her body moved by émotions, she was singing the words of the songs softly, completing him
The entire restaurant stopped moving including the staff for 30minutes
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
ImTheDoubleGreatest!
Master Don Juan
It's about an injection of romance into the relationship. They get stale and need some from time to time. If not done enough, she gets bored and we all know where that goes.…
ImTheDoubleGreatest!
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Fair enough. But it needs to be done RELATIVE to how to how much you normally would give. The stereotypical bad boy giving his girlfriend a rose is seen as much more romantic than a nice guy buying a whole bushel for his.
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Baaaah!
Take her out somewhere FUN and different, and have a good time with her. As for romance, take her into the bedroom, light some candles, put on some music, lube her back, give her a massage, then go into a lengthy foreplay session. Fvck her in a different position than you typically do and at a different speed. Then you take her in your arms.
A good date consists of different emotions. Run her through different positive ones instead of only one (romance). She'll be happier with that.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Yep. Get her adrenaline going. Take her on Fun Park rides roller skating you pick. Throw in a couple of quick makeout sessions at least to second base in public places where you might get caught. Then get home and do the candles thing. Trust me by then that pussie will be like a Lake of Fire