"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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She´s probably expecting dinner at a nice restaurant and some sort of gift.

Gift ideas? Maybe something inexpensive but thoughtful
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Maybe something that's yours that no one can really give her. Say an old sweatshirt because it'll smell like you, or make a drawing of you guys, or something related to an inside joke that only you two know.
 

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I wouldn't do anything special. Never have either. Doing so would be buying into her frame.
 

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Give her the Dee......It's free!!
 

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Dépends on the personality

I would do something she aint expecting

Make her dîner, candllight, bed of rose,
3 step: 1)romantic walk 2) romantic dîner 3)bed sport

She get a takeaway shirt too (likely she'l pick your fafavorite)

I remember i was on a diner date once, their was a couple elderly next to us

The man started signing (huming the songs... you know no lyrics but your throat reproducing the sounds)... hé had 60songs

1 Song per year of marriage, is wife was stunning beauty (she look 50 and inshape)... you could see the love in her eyes, she was bending towards him... eyes full of love, her body moved by émotions, she was singing the words of the songs softly, completing him

The entire restaurant stopped moving including the staff for 30minutes
 
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Dépends on the personality

I would do something she aint expecting

Make her dîner, candllight, bed of rose,
3 step: 1)romantic walk 2) romantic dîner 3)bed sport

She get a takeaway shirt too (likely she'l pick your fafavorite)

I remember i was on a diner date once, their was a couple elderly next to us

The man started signing (huming the songs... you know no lyrics but your throat reproducing the sounds)... hé had 60songs

1 Song per year of marriage, is wife was stunning beauty (she look 50 and inshape)... you could see the love in her eyes, she was bending towards him... eyes full of love, her body moved by émotions, she was singing the words of the songs softly, completing him

The entire restaurant stopped moving including the staff for 30minutes
Not gonna lie, this sounds pretty gay.
 

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It's about an injection of romance into the relationship. They get stale and need some from time to time. If not done enough, she gets bored and we all know where that goes.…
Fair enough. But it needs to be done RELATIVE to how to how much you normally would give. The stereotypical bad boy giving his girlfriend a rose is seen as much more romantic than a nice guy buying a whole bushel for his.
 

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Jesus... Not everything is a war between the sexes....

She's your steady girlfriend of a year.... Buy her something nice.
 

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Make her dîner, candllight, bed of rose,
3 step: 1)romantic walk 2) romantic dîner 3)bed sport
Baaaah!

Take her out somewhere FUN and different, and have a good time with her. As for romance, take her into the bedroom, light some candles, put on some music, lube her back, give her a massage, then go into a lengthy foreplay session. Fvck her in a different position than you typically do and at a different speed. Then you take her in your arms.

A good date consists of different emotions. Run her through different positive ones instead of only one (romance). She'll be happier with that.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Yep. Get her adrenaline going. Take her on Fun Park rides roller skating you pick. Throw in a couple of quick makeout sessions at least to second base in public places where you might get caught. Then get home and do the candles thing. Trust me by then that pussie will be like a Lake of Fire
 
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