Doctor Europeo
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She´s probably expecting dinner at a nice restaurant and some sort of gift.
Gift ideas? Maybe something inexpensive but thoughtful
Gift ideas? Maybe something inexpensive but thoughtful
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
1 year anniversary with gf coming up in less than a month
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
ImTheDoubleGreatest!
Master Don Juan
Maybe something that's yours that no one can really give her. Say an old sweatshirt because it'll smell like you, or make a drawing of you guys, or something related to an inside joke that only you two know.
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Dépends on the personality
I would do something she aint expecting
Make her dîner, candllight, bed of rose,
3 step: 1)romantic walk 2) romantic dîner 3)bed sport
She get a takeaway shirt too (likely she'l pick your fafavorite)
I remember i was on a diner date once, their was a couple elderly next to us
The man started signing (huming the songs... you know no lyrics but your throat reproducing the sounds)... hé had 60songs
1 Song per year of marriage, is wife was stunning beauty (she look 50 and inshape)... you could see the love in her eyes, she was bending towards him... eyes full of love, her body moved by émotions, she was singing the words of the songs softly, completing him
The entire restaurant stopped moving including the staff for 30minutes
I would do something she aint expecting
Make her dîner, candllight, bed of rose,
3 step: 1)romantic walk 2) romantic dîner 3)bed sport
She get a takeaway shirt too (likely she'l pick your fafavorite)
I remember i was on a diner date once, their was a couple elderly next to us
The man started signing (huming the songs... you know no lyrics but your throat reproducing the sounds)... hé had 60songs
1 Song per year of marriage, is wife was stunning beauty (she look 50 and inshape)... you could see the love in her eyes, she was bending towards him... eyes full of love, her body moved by émotions, she was singing the words of the songs softly, completing him
The entire restaurant stopped moving including the staff for 30minutes
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
ImTheDoubleGreatest!
Master Don Juan
It's about an injection of romance into the relationship. They get stale and need some from time to time. If not done enough, she gets bored and we all know where that goes.…
ImTheDoubleGreatest!
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Fair enough. But it needs to be done RELATIVE to how to how much you normally would give. The stereotypical bad boy giving his girlfriend a rose is seen as much more romantic than a nice guy buying a whole bushel for his.
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Baaaah!
Take her out somewhere FUN and different, and have a good time with her. As for romance, take her into the bedroom, light some candles, put on some music, lube her back, give her a massage, then go into a lengthy foreplay session. Fvck her in a different position than you typically do and at a different speed. Then you take her in your arms.
A good date consists of different emotions. Run her through different positive ones instead of only one (romance). She'll be happier with that.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Yep. Get her adrenaline going. Take her on Fun Park rides roller skating you pick. Throw in a couple of quick makeout sessions at least to second base in public places where you might get caught. Then get home and do the candles thing. Trust me by then that pussie will be like a Lake of Fire