Doctor Europeo
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She´s probably expecting dinner at a nice restaurant and some sort of gift.
Gift ideas? Maybe something inexpensive but thoughtful
Gift ideas? Maybe something inexpensive but thoughtful
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
1 year anniversary with gf coming up in less than a month
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
ImTheDoubleGreatest!
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Maybe something that's yours that no one can really give her. Say an old sweatshirt because it'll smell like you, or make a drawing of you guys, or something related to an inside joke that only you two know.
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Dépends on the personality
I would do something she aint expecting
Make her dîner, candllight, bed of rose,
3 step: 1)romantic walk 2) romantic dîner 3)bed sport
She get a takeaway shirt too (likely she'l pick your fafavorite)
I remember i was on a diner date once, their was a couple elderly next to us
The man started signing (huming the songs... you know no lyrics but your throat reproducing the sounds)... hé had 60songs
1 Song per year of marriage, is wife was stunning beauty (she look 50 and inshape)... you could see the love in her eyes, she was bending towards him... eyes full of love, her body moved by émotions, she was singing the words of the songs softly, completing him
The entire restaurant stopped moving including the staff for 30minutes
I would do something she aint expecting
Make her dîner, candllight, bed of rose,
3 step: 1)romantic walk 2) romantic dîner 3)bed sport
She get a takeaway shirt too (likely she'l pick your fafavorite)
I remember i was on a diner date once, their was a couple elderly next to us
The man started signing (huming the songs... you know no lyrics but your throat reproducing the sounds)... hé had 60songs
1 Song per year of marriage, is wife was stunning beauty (she look 50 and inshape)... you could see the love in her eyes, she was bending towards him... eyes full of love, her body moved by émotions, she was singing the words of the songs softly, completing him
The entire restaurant stopped moving including the staff for 30minutes
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
ImTheDoubleGreatest!
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It's about an injection of romance into the relationship. They get stale and need some from time to time. If not done enough, she gets bored and we all know where that goes.…
ImTheDoubleGreatest!
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Fair enough. But it needs to be done RELATIVE to how to how much you normally would give. The stereotypical bad boy giving his girlfriend a rose is seen as much more romantic than a nice guy buying a whole bushel for his.
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Baaaah!
Take her out somewhere FUN and different, and have a good time with her. As for romance, take her into the bedroom, light some candles, put on some music, lube her back, give her a massage, then go into a lengthy foreplay session. Fvck her in a different position than you typically do and at a different speed. Then you take her in your arms.
A good date consists of different emotions. Run her through different positive ones instead of only one (romance). She'll be happier with that.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Yep. Get her adrenaline going. Take her on Fun Park rides roller skating you pick. Throw in a couple of quick makeout sessions at least to second base in public places where you might get caught. Then get home and do the candles thing. Trust me by then that pussie will be like a Lake of Fire