Going on a 2 week trip after first date, need some advice

BelfordArcher

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I went on a date with a girl I met on a dating app, it went well, k-closed and got confirmation that she wants a second date. Now I’m leaving on a two week trip and I won’t be able to go on another date till I get back.

I’m wondering what’s the best way to play this.
1. Should I suggest we go on a date when I get back or just tell her I’m off on my trip with no mention of another date?
2. Should I try to keep her interests in some way while on my trip (I’m thinking Snapchat) or just go cold while I’m away?

I was in a similar situation about a month ago with another girl, met her at a party, danced and made out all night (unfortunately couldn’t f-close) got her contact, she showed high interest. Then I left for 2 weeks, got back started convo again, noticeable drop in interest. She then flaked twice on me before I just said **** it.

In that instance I told her I was going away with no indication of seeing each other when I got back, I got her Snapchat but never messaged her. Then hit her up a few days after I returned.

Thoughts?
 
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lamath

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I would just go with lets see where this goes when i get back.

2 week is not that long.
Nothingnwrong with a txt or 2 while your gone imo
 

mikey2012

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Ghost her. Keep the game tight. She will be thinking of you. DONT CONTACT HER OR EVEN TELL HER YOU ARE GOING AWAY. I guarantee when you are back she will be as wet as f**k.
 
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