First date (on a Thursday) was patio drinks then a walk outdoors on a warm summer evening. Holding hands on the walk, hugging, and the date ending with her suggesting a second date on Sunday.
She texts me 30-45 mins after, thanking for the walk, saying I am adorable, and that she is really glad we met.
Sunday rolls around and we grab a drink at a local bar and head to our county fair, which happened to be going on. Rides, drinks, holding hands, kissing, her touching me all over. I could tell she was super into me - night ended with more hugging, kissing, and her wanting a third date the coming Tuesday. Again, a text about me being a good kisser and making her cheeks hurt. She also said “This could be the start of something pretty good.” Which is probably the most-forward thing a girl has texted me after just a second date.
Tuesday night we go out, have fun, and hook up back at her place. The next morning I leave for work and she hugs and kisses me out the door.
That day she’s blowing up my phone at work and I just go for it and setup a movie and hangout again that night. Hookup again and I leave for work in the morning. This time no kisses at the door, she stayed in bed.
Since then, her texts to me became much more infrequent, but still lively and engaging as they were in the early days when she was blowing up my phone. I wait until Saturday and ask her out for Sunday - she blows me off, saying she is sick and exhausted from working late at the bar. I act cool about it, saying “Feel better! Let me know when you’re available, (wink emoji)”.
Four days pass with no texts from her. I ask again Wednesday for a date Friday, she says still sick, feels bad, would love to do something other than work. We exchange 1 or 2 texts and she wishes me a goodnight.
Since then, no word or interaction at all after 1 week. I really dig this chick and I know she works a lot running the bar she works at, but still (right?). Also, it is not like I haven’t been seeing other women too (4 dates with different women since our last text exchange a week ago). But, she is hot and fun - so I do think about her.
Is it even worth trying a third time after waiting a full two weeks? Clearly her interest plummeted and before anyone goes saying “the sex was bad” I know it could not be the case. Any advice?
Thanks!
She texts me 30-45 mins after, thanking for the walk, saying I am adorable, and that she is really glad we met.
Sunday rolls around and we grab a drink at a local bar and head to our county fair, which happened to be going on. Rides, drinks, holding hands, kissing, her touching me all over. I could tell she was super into me - night ended with more hugging, kissing, and her wanting a third date the coming Tuesday. Again, a text about me being a good kisser and making her cheeks hurt. She also said “This could be the start of something pretty good.” Which is probably the most-forward thing a girl has texted me after just a second date.
Tuesday night we go out, have fun, and hook up back at her place. The next morning I leave for work and she hugs and kisses me out the door.
That day she’s blowing up my phone at work and I just go for it and setup a movie and hangout again that night. Hookup again and I leave for work in the morning. This time no kisses at the door, she stayed in bed.
Since then, her texts to me became much more infrequent, but still lively and engaging as they were in the early days when she was blowing up my phone. I wait until Saturday and ask her out for Sunday - she blows me off, saying she is sick and exhausted from working late at the bar. I act cool about it, saying “Feel better! Let me know when you’re available, (wink emoji)”.
Four days pass with no texts from her. I ask again Wednesday for a date Friday, she says still sick, feels bad, would love to do something other than work. We exchange 1 or 2 texts and she wishes me a goodnight.
Since then, no word or interaction at all after 1 week. I really dig this chick and I know she works a lot running the bar she works at, but still (right?). Also, it is not like I haven’t been seeing other women too (4 dates with different women since our last text exchange a week ago). But, she is hot and fun - so I do think about her.
Is it even worth trying a third time after waiting a full two weeks? Clearly her interest plummeted and before anyone goes saying “the sex was bad” I know it could not be the case. Any advice?
Thanks!
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