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I've been visiting these forums since I was about 19 years old. The wisdom and knowledge I found here helped me a great deal and turned my life around. I'm 35 now. The difference between then and now is that I had so many possibilities. We were all young, youthful, looking for adventure...

What if a girl I'm in a new relationship with tells me in person she has doubts? I know, I f8cked some things up coming off as jealous and insecure a couple of times, so that's what's blew it. She said she wants it to work again, but she doubts that it's realistic right now and wanted to hear my...

Two years I have been single after a looong LTR. These were great times with lots of partying and friends and I dated quite some women but nothing very special. Recently I fell in love with someone, dated and we started a relationship. But this new girlfriend already had planned this trip: a one...

Well.. it's quite a long time ago I came here asking for advice to be honest. But here I am! Actually I've not been doing very bad these days concerning women... had a few successes so far. But the one I'm into right now is giving me a pain in the ass. Or better: I'm giving myself a pain in the...

Seriously, this website is giving me so much theory about most things we men care about. But it's since a year that I really started to act, make choices en pursue a lifestyle that I want. Some people think it's selfish, others call me stubborn, and again others just turned their backs on me...

I was at a party, with approx. 40 people. There were two girls that clearly showed interest in me. They didn't know each other, but the environment was small enough that you could see almost everything that happened. So... I just approached both of them, and chatted a little. From that point I...

I'm a little confused right now. I've been dating this woman (23 y/o) for three weeks now. We actually had two dates after we met, and already had sex. All the 'signs' were like she was really into me. Many same interests, music, she initiated texting almost every day, etc... We set up a...

I have enough of those flaking, denying feministic b*tches. They just don't understand that they are on an endless road and that the perfect man does not exist. They don't even know what they want but pretend to be a high class girl with self value and self respect bla bla bla. Last week I fell...

So I really ****ed it up this time. I actually never had a one night stand before. So I went out with this girl, chubby 6.0, we got very drunk together and ended up in HER bed. We started kissing a little, you know, doing some foreplay. But I was so drunk, that my **** didn't go stiff. So I...

I'm happy that I can say I have a cool dad. He is a businessman. One with a real passion about what he is doing, one who really thinks about things before he does or say something. When it comes to personality, I would describe him as a DJ who has always been a real jerk at times, but since...

Hi guys, this is very simple. Last month I tried to pick-up a girl in a bar... she is a friend of my brothers' girlfriend actually and she's befriended with my younger sister too. I thought I totally screwed up that night because I was drunk. But lately I heard from my brother she kind of...

Because I totally agree with guys like Julius Seizeher: We should focus on building up our lives. I think many people, including me, are very motivated on starting a business. Many questions are popping up: Where to start? What are the best opportunities? I'm a filmmaker/video editor. I...

Getting out of the comfort zone more often takes a lot of energy. I notice problems caused by negative thoughts that pop up everytime I try to get somewhere. The biggest problem I'm facing for many years is not about money, status, not being able to have a conversation with strangers or any...

Short story: friday I picked up a girl in the train. A young girl... I estimated her about 20 y/o. She was really impressed by our conversation, an even introduced herself. I look much younger than I am... but she could already know that I was at least 22/23 because I told her about how I...

I am 26 years old. When I look back to past years, I have mixed feelings. This year I ended a 5,5 year LTR, and I was faithful to her. So I'm like re-inventing myself right now. Confidence is the key here, although I am very insecure. Something what I think is a root for my insecurity, is that...